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May I present to you, the truly happy couple


I have been to a few weddings over the years. Some fill you with dread for the future of the couple and some, an overwhelming warmth, knowing that the two people that you have just watched declare the rest of their lives to each other, are more in love than you could have ever imagined.

Before I tell you about what truly was the most beautiful and perfect wedding that I have ever been to and get all soppy, I will just tell you about two weddings that I was lucky enough to witness.

One wedding had the reception in local pub on the outskirts of Brighton. The bride stood at the bar, proud as punch, in her lovely white dress, staring adoringly at her new husband, cigarette in one hand, pint in the other and at least 6 months pregnant.

Another wedding that I attended saw the bride get so drunk that she threw herself onto the bonnet of the car of a leaving guest, in an attempt to make them stay. I have to say, that she was having a great time, even if this isn't exactly the kind of behaviour that you would expect from a bride.

This weekend, I watched my pals Kate and Paice get married and I had to hold back the tears (pretty unsuccessfully). It was beautiful. Kate looked stunning and Paice ever the handsome groom. As they caught sight of each other for the first time on their wedding day, everyone in the room knew that they were perfect for one another.

I wrote a reading for the day about my friends and as I delivered the final lines, I looked at the newlyweds knowing that this really was the beginning of their adventure.

Despite the naked picture of the groom that circulated the tables during the wedding speeches or the video from the stag weekend in Ibiza of the groom dancing to Suspicious Minds, the day was incredible, and by the time the first dance came around every one had clean forgotten his hairy torso.

It is not often that I gush about relationships, but in this case I am left with the feeling that perhaps there is someone for everyone and that here you have a case of two people, against all the odds, finding each other.

Comments(4)

PrestigeLyon says...
9:06pm Wed 24 Jun 09

Bless them. Nice post, Jen.

Anubis, your thoughts?

Txa says...
11:07pm Sat 27 Jun 09

Let's just say that if it wouldn't be for Anubis it wouldn't be much discussion.

Nothing against weddings, but let's congratulate all the couples that remain together against all odds. Cheers!


anubis says...
10:00pm Sun 5 Jul 09

Glad to learn Anubis has his uses, Txa!

I didn't respond simply because I have no strong opinion; indeed, it upsets me a little to find I go along with Txa's thoughts ..... (although Txa is more cautious in his presentation!)

Put bluntly, it's quite an absurd title: "may I present to you, the truly happy couple". Probably 100% of those who "marry", given they are not coerced, are "truly happy" on that day! ,,, that's just one day out of say 20,000, for the average British bride.

I've married twice. The first attempt was disastrous (we just weren't suited and almost all our friends told us so BEFORE 'the day') -- the second one has lasted nearly 50 years and so far so good! Our three daughters all had kids before they married -- all three have since formalized the relationships ... and all are VERY happy .... leaving me with nine grandkids.

Needless to say, I'd remain single rather than have a priest mumble nonsense to me; but don't misunderstand me. If you like the ritual, Christian, Muslim, Jedi or Voodoo -- good luck to you!

Jenwa says...
2:01am Sun 12 Jul 09

Look mate - my point was that I have never seen two people more suited, more in love, more happy tie the not than on any wedding day that I have ever attended. EVER.

Marriages according to the stats that we are constantly told, do not last, so for me, it was an overwhelming day.

I won't apologise for the title, only say to you that I am sadden by anyone that has entered into a marriage only to find that it did not stand the test of time.

I think I have made my point - where usually I would bite my tongue.

BTW Anubis - I am glad that you were 2nd time lucky. That is triumph in the face of stats and you should be proud.


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