Mums and dads in Brighton and Hove offered parenting ‘tip sheets’

Parents are being offered “tip sheets” on how to deal with their difficult children.

The move is part of a project aimed at teaching mums and dads in Brighton and Hove how to be good parents.

Topics can include dealing with temper tantrums and handling rudeness and disrespect.

Help is also given on balancing work and home and raising competent and confident teens.

Around 1,500 parents in the city have already taken part in the Positive Parenting Programme so far, which is now being expanded.

The eight-week course, also known as Triple P, helps families develop their own approach rather than being told how to parent.

Brighton and Hove City Council’s children’s services, housing and schools teams have been working with public health teams to promote the scheme.

A similar approach is in place in Glasgow and in other cities in the US, Holland and Canada.

Parenting debate

The move is part of a drive to engage parents and the public in a debate about parenting and finding out in what areas they are confident and where they struggle.

Some parents were referred or encouraged to attend the course by health visitors, GPs, teachers, early years visitors and youth and social workers while others booked themselves a place.

Out of those who have taken part in the scheme so far, 74% saw improved behaviour, 52% said it reduced anxiety and 97% found it eased stress.

A wider range of help is now being offered, including discussion groups and talks to ensure more families can benefit from it.

Right support

Sue Shanks, the chairwoman of the children and young people committee, said: “All parents struggle with their children’s behaviour from time to time and having the right support at the right time makes a big difference.

“Triple P means better outcomes for children, fewer children entering the care system, reduced mental health issues in parents and fewer days off sick.”

The council is to host a debate to gather the city’s views on parenting in the community and the support needed.

A campaign will also be run to raise awareness among parents.

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Comments(11)

Roundbill says...
9:04am Sun 13 Jan 13

Do the tip sheets include suggestions about how to handle naughty headmasters who bully their staff and pupils?

mimseycal says...
9:17am Sun 13 Jan 13

Parenting is a skill. Those of us fortunate enough to learn it first hand, as children growing up, seem to be in a minority sadly.

The fact is that though you are faced with a child today, you really are dealing with the teenager and adult it will become.

Roundbill says...
9:23am Sun 13 Jan 13

mimseycal wrote:
Parenting is a skill. Those of us fortunate enough to learn it first hand, as children growing up, seem to be in a minority sadly.

The fact is that though you are faced with a child today, you really are dealing with the teenager and adult it will become.
Wow, dude - that's deep. You do know it's first thing on a Sunday morning, don't you?

Dealing with idiots says...
9:35am Sun 13 Jan 13

Too little too late and a sheet of parenting tips is going to make little or no difference. Unfortunately our liberal elite seem to think that parents are their children's 'friends'. Wrong. A parent is in a very different position where sometimes we have to make decisions on behalf of our children that they don't like. Too many yummy mummies and equally those with a Croydon facelift are afraid of their children or certainly afraid of offending them. Children are what you make them and unfortunately so few parents seem willing or able to step up and take the responsibility for producing them in the first place.

Roundbill says...
9:47am Sun 13 Jan 13

Right, that's it - I'm going back to bed for a couple more hours. Mi brane hertz.

Mayan Turkey says...
10:03am Sun 13 Jan 13

Remember ladies and gentlemen of Brighton. Prevention is better than cure. Contraception is the key. Ladies, too many shared with Trevor the telesales administroid or Tyler the part-time dealer do not make them Mr Right.
Men should remember to use condoms. It means never having to hear those awful words: "Dad, I want a Manchester United football strip".

george smith says...
5:02pm Sun 13 Jan 13

Dealing with idiots wrote:
Too little too late and a sheet of parenting tips is going to make little or no difference. Unfortunately our liberal elite seem to think that parents are their children's 'friends'. Wrong. A parent is in a very different position where sometimes we have to make decisions on behalf of our children that they don't like. Too many yummy mummies and equally those with a Croydon facelift are afraid of their children or certainly afraid of offending them. Children are what you make them and unfortunately so few parents seem willing or able to step up and take the responsibility for producing them in the first place.
They start off on the wrong foot, by having a mixed race baby as it is trendy, then a caesarian, so not have stretch marks. Then they make up a daft name as Indiana twinkletoes. They then drop the father and take up with someone else, the kid is unwanted produce from the previous relationship, they give the kid a few cans of booze to go down the park, so they can get on with their own very important social lives.

mimseycal says...
6:22pm Sun 13 Jan 13

george smith wrote:
Dealing with idiots wrote:
Too little too late and a sheet of parenting tips is going to make little or no difference. Unfortunately our liberal elite seem to think that parents are their children's 'friends'. Wrong. A parent is in a very different position where sometimes we have to make decisions on behalf of our children that they don't like. Too many yummy mummies and equally those with a Croydon facelift are afraid of their children or certainly afraid of offending them. Children are what you make them and unfortunately so few parents seem willing or able to step up and take the responsibility for producing them in the first place.
They start off on the wrong foot, by having a mixed race baby as it is trendy, then a caesarian, so not have stretch marks. Then they make up a daft name as Indiana twinkletoes. They then drop the father and take up with someone else, the kid is unwanted produce from the previous relationship, they give the kid a few cans of booze to go down the park, so they can get on with their own very important social lives.
So why the stress on a mixed race baby? The problem is the parenting not the child.

george smith says...
6:37pm Sun 13 Jan 13

mimseycal wrote:
george smith wrote:
Dealing with idiots wrote:
Too little too late and a sheet of parenting tips is going to make little or no difference. Unfortunately our liberal elite seem to think that parents are their children's 'friends'. Wrong. A parent is in a very different position where sometimes we have to make decisions on behalf of our children that they don't like. Too many yummy mummies and equally those with a Croydon facelift are afraid of their children or certainly afraid of offending them. Children are what you make them and unfortunately so few parents seem willing or able to step up and take the responsibility for producing them in the first place.
They start off on the wrong foot, by having a mixed race baby as it is trendy, then a caesarian, so not have stretch marks. Then they make up a daft name as Indiana twinkletoes. They then drop the father and take up with someone else, the kid is unwanted produce from the previous relationship, they give the kid a few cans of booze to go down the park, so they can get on with their own very important social lives.
So why the stress on a mixed race baby? The problem is the parenting not the child.
They chose to have a child like a designer handbag

Roundbill says...
9:56pm Sun 13 Jan 13

Good grief, you two - it's bad enough that the Argus reprints pointless press releases about Katie Price, without you turning an unrelated article into yet another story about her! Give it a rest, okay?

sedwardsESQ says...
11:15pm Mon 14 Jan 13

There's a few mum's and Dad's up at them wellend villas could do with one of these courses from what I hear, crucifying disabled people just so they get a kick of power, making up story's to new tenants to make them fearful of certain residents, even using their own children to cause havoc and mayhem in order to make these poor folk leave their homes, a kind of "Gang-Stalking", if you single mums have that much time on your hands to hurt innocent that cause you no harm then I think it's time you stopped screwing the Social Security and go out and make a descent living and provide for your dysfunctional family's.

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