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5:18pm Wednesday 16th January 2008
A popular young man who leapt to his death from a 100ft high bridge was mired in debt, it has emerged.
Robert Howard, 29, from Bedford Row, Worthing, was under mounting financial pressure in the weeks leading to his death, his family said.
But crucially he kept the problems to himself.
On Saturday, Mr Howard, who was known to pals as "Herman", jumped off the footbridge just east of the A27 Shoreham flyover, landing on the busy dual carriageway below.
Mr Howard's father, John, said he had not told anyone about his money fears.
"Since his death we have found out that he had financial worries that he had not told anyone, including us, about ," he said.
Last night Mr Howard said he was not prepared to discuss the extent of his son's debt.
Pals have said they are dismayed that the motor technician, who worked for Frosts Jaguar, felt he could not speak to anyone about his personal problems.
They have expressed their shock that an outwardly happy man, could have been driven to suicide.
Mr Herman, who lived in Shoreham for most of his life, had just started to learn to fly and was doing well at work.
Anna James, from Shoreham, said: "I am so sad that you couldn't talk to one of the many friends that cared about you so much.
"Rest in peace Herm and my thoughts are with the family and close friends who will miss you so much."
Other tributes have flooded in from friends and family in Sussex and around the world since The Argus broke the story on Saturday.
One, from Sydney, Australia, wrote: "I distinctly remember Herman's cheeky smile and he was a really great guy and loved a laugh in school and out."
A spokesman for the Citizens Advice Bureau in Sussex said: "Everybody acknowledges this is likely to be a tough year financially, for all sorts of reasons.
"There is a direct correlation between financial harsdship and suicide. But the point must be stressed that there is so much help out there."
Financial experts, including Worthing based insolvency experts Nancollas Greer, have warned that money could become increasingly tight during 2008 with continued fears over a "credit crunch" and high interest rates causing problems for many.
Politicians have also warned that repossession rates across Sussex could soar as homeowners struggle to meet mortgage repayments.
Worthing borough councillor Alan Rice warned: "Many more people will be seeking housing and debt advice this year."
An inquest into Mr Howard's death has been opened and adjourned.
His family have confirmed that his funeral will take place at Worthing Crematorium later this month.
Comment and Analysis: Thousands go into debt every day
Hove Park Resident, Hove Park says...
7:59pm Wed 16 Jan 08
bob, lewes says...
9:56pm Wed 16 Jan 08
Concerned father, Brighton says...
10:58pm Wed 16 Jan 08
Rhinofish, Hove says...
11:49pm Wed 16 Jan 08
Dave, Brighton says...
3:01am Thu 17 Jan 08
mick, brighton says...
7:09am Thu 17 Jan 08
Gary, Hove says...
7:21am Thu 17 Jan 08
Andy R, Hove says...
9:45am Thu 17 Jan 08
Hove Park Resident wrote:Ooooh...I think that last word ought to be reserved for yourself HPR. Tell me, just what IS the point of administering a telling-off for selfishness to someone who's dead?
Dave says he did not want to burden anyone else. Try telling that to all the poor sods who saw him jump. Try telling that to the emergency services who had to deal with him. Try telling that to the nurses and doctors who tried to save his life. Try telling his family who have been left behind to deal with everything. Dave you are a prize plonker.
grumpy, hove says...
10:33am Thu 17 Jan 08
bob, worthing says...
10:54am Thu 17 Jan 08
anon, shoreham says...
12:06pm Thu 17 Jan 08
Bill, Uckfield says...
12:36pm Thu 17 Jan 08
Shamoon, Hove says...
12:52pm Thu 17 Jan 08
Hove Park Resident wrote:My thoughts exactly.
Dave says he did not want to burden anyone else. Try telling that to all the poor sods who saw him jump. Try telling that to the emergency services who had to deal with him. Try telling that to the nurses and doctors who tried to save his life. Try telling his family who have been left behind to deal with everything. Dave you are a prize plonker.
anon, worthing says...
2:00pm Thu 17 Jan 08
and, sussex says...
2:28pm Thu 17 Jan 08
grumpy wrote:err just because its a charity it doesnt justify them giving poor service...if they cant provide enough cover just to hand out leaflets then close them down and give the millions of £ of funding back so someone else can have a go
Correct me if I'm wrong but I think all the CAB workers are volunteers, + it's a charity. It's always taken a long wait to be seen, but I've used them twice + both times they gave good advice.
Gwen Flude, West Sussex says...
3:39pm Thu 17 Jan 08
Kelly, Worthing says...
8:48pm Thu 17 Jan 08
jo, mileoak says...
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claire, hove says...
10:53pm Thu 17 Jan 08
paul, worthing says...
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Alzerbin, Burgess Hill says...
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Anon, says...
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ross bourne, worthing says...
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Anon, Lancing says...
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lb, says...
4:22pm Sun 20 Jan 08
Alzerbin wrote:Ahh poor Alzerbin!or should I say Billy! you clearly have no life of your own to waste your time in writing such a worthless comment. I can't believe some of the things i have read on here, this is a site for people to say nice things about Rob, not for people to pick holes, just remember someone's loved one has died.My heart goes out to Robs Family and all his friends.
Claire, is that English or a predictive text message with a major software problem ?
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Dave, At Home says...
5:33pm Wed 16 Jan 08
I don't admire him for what he did but I do understand. My thoughts are with his family and friends who must feel really bad that they could not of helped this guy.
Very sad that society works like this.....