I am 25 and I have been to bed with man after man over the past seven years. Yet none of them has ever made me orgasm. Why?

Probably because they’re not doing it right.

Unfortunately, many guys are happy to help themselves to an agreeable spot of sex, without worrying whether the woman climaxes or not. So I do urge you to stop trying man after man, in the hope one of them will be the bloke who “rings the bell”. Instead, I think you should get yourself some counselling from a female doctor or therapist who is used to dealing with orgasm problems. Please begin by contacting the Sexual Dysfunction Association: www.sda.uk.net.