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Graduate kills herself after bank bailiffs close in on debt

12:10am Friday 26th September 2008

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By Nigel Freedman »

A graduate killed herself after bailiffs threatened to strike over £40,000 debts.

Science graduate Claire Ashing, 34, from Brighton, put a bag over her head and suffocated as banks closed in on loans.

A coroner yesterday hit out at the money lenders as Claire's mother Mary described them as "immoral".

Mrs Ashing told an inquest that threatening letters continued to arrive for her daughter after she had died.

"They were threatening to send in the bailiffs if she did not honour some of what she owed,"Mrs Ashing said.

"It had built up gradually over ten years and included £10,000 on a student loan.

ìI think it is immoral of the credit card companies to keep throwing money at young people in the way they do.

"She was making repayments until about two months before she died but then things seemed to get out of hand.

"I had helped her out financially but she was a very private person and did not tell me how much she owed.

"If she had I would have taken her to get advice on how to stop the cards."

Miss Ashing was found dead by her mother and her friend Sarah Churchill in her flat below her parents’ house in Surrenden Road ,Brighton, in June.

She suffocated after putting a plastic bag and a pillow over her head and sealing it with gaffer tape.

The inquest heard she had bravely battled back from three hip replacement operations as a result of a hip dislocation problem.

She had graduated in biomedical sciences and was studying for her masters degree.

Her hip operations had set her plans for a career as a science laboratory technician back and she had never had a full time job.

Miss Churchill was among 15 friends and family who attended the inquest at Brighton County Court yesterday. (thu) She paid tribute to Claire saying she was always laughing and joking and put her family, friends and pets before anything else.

Miss Churchill said: "She had a wonderful sense of humour and was a great tease and joker who made us laugh all the time.

"She never suggested to any of us that she had financial problems. If she had we would all have helped her out.

"I spoke to her on the phone the night before she died and there was nothing in her voice to ring alarm bells.

"Her friends all want to thank Maureen and Vernon for a wonderful daughter and friend.

"Our love for her and them will never die."

Dr Karen Henderson, deputy assistant coroner of Brighton and Hove recorded a verdict that Miss Ashing took her own life.

Dr Henderson added: "There will always be two sides to the argument about where the responsibility for credit cards lies.

"Is it the responsibility of the banks or the the credit card companies to check credit worthiness or is the responsibility with the individual?

"Even though the sums here were quite significant it happened over a long, insidious period of time.

"Banks and credit card companies giving money after money after money is a very difficult thing to justify.

"In this court there should be no civil or criminal liability but it is difficult to see how they can do that without having proper checks in place."

Frances Walker, from the Consumer Credit Counselling Service, said: "Unfortunately we do hear about these cases from time to time and they are particularly tragic because of course the debt problem, if people can seek help, can always be solved.

"There is a lot of shame attached to debt problems and it’s an emotional problem as well as a financial one.

"A lot of people feel they cannot talk to their families about it. We get a lot of people in who have not even told their partners.

"We always advise people to tell their families but we respect them their wishes if they do not want to. We as a charity are completely confidential.

"We are always distressed that people are driven to such and extreme. If people make that first phone call they often feel relieved and less pressurised straight away."

If you are worried about debt, call the CCCS on 0800 1381111. A counselling service is also available 24-hours a day at www.cccs.co.uk.


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bertnz, brighton says...
5:53am Fri 26 Sep 08

what a sad story, but not an unusual one these days... I myself was over 30,000 pnds in debt, I tried talking to the companies explaining my situation but all they wanted was there money, baliffs called, there was no help ! It was my own fault, but when you are young you dont realise.. you try so hard to pay it back but all you are doing is covering the interest... They should cap on what is loaned to each individual, have proof of earnings and then do a percentage on this, no proof no loan. something has to be done, more so with the way the economy is now....

davyboy, abingdon, oxon says...
7:44am Fri 26 Sep 08

if they had bothered to help, they would have got their money back. now, due to them harrassing this young girl, they will get nothing. what a shame she felt this way. i hope that financial institutions learn from this. i agree with the previous post that credit is thrown at people without enough proof of earnings or financial state. something must be done.

feline1, Brighton says...
9:06am Fri 26 Sep 08

I agree too. Especially when you are a student and then a new graduate, banks will thrust all kinds of credit in your direction and advise you to take it. It's totally irresponsible and this kind of thing can be the result. And it's by no means the only suicide I've heard of where debt anxiety was a major factor.

Wilftop, Brighton says...
10:24am Fri 26 Sep 08

I'm Sorry for her family, & the fiends for the loss of a loved one. But no-body held a gun to her head saying she had to have the credit cards, loans etc.

When I get them they get shreded, many of us go to uni and come out with some debt but part of growing up is how you deal with it, by not adding to it through more loans etc.

It's like saying fast food outlets are at fault for obese people. People are responsible for themselves & thier own actions. The vunerable will always grasp at straws.

It's just very sad that she did not feel that she could talk to her family & friends.

bamboo, Brighton says...
10:33am Fri 26 Sep 08

The banks are not just replying to requests for credit but actively promoting it. I am in my mid twenties and not in an extreme amount of debt so everytime I go into the bank to make a transaction they want to make an appointment with a bank manager.

If I go to the bank manager it is to try and get me to take a credit card, which I don't need. When I refuse they have before said "we will send you one anyway for an emergency you don't have to use it."

My thoughts go out to this woman's family. It is such a shame that she did not realise that at the end of the day there is only so much they can take away from you, even in the worst case scenario.

NoWay, Brighton says...
11:42am Fri 26 Sep 08

Here's why students are in debt;

A while ago, Uni was state funded. Only the brightest people got in, though.

But now the government is obsessed with getting idiots in to uni, there's no money left for the people who actually deserve it! Stop trying to get stupid kids in to uni, leave it to the people who are actually good enough! FREE UP THE MONEY, STOP THE DEBT!

feline1, Brighton says...
12:15pm Fri 26 Sep 08

NoWay wrote:
Here's why students are in debt;

A while ago, Uni was state funded. Only the brightest people got in, though.

But now the government is obsessed with getting idiots in to uni, there's no money left for the people who actually deserve it! Stop trying to get stupid kids in to uni, leave it to the people who are actually good enough! FREE UP THE MONEY, STOP THE DEBT!
My goodness, I agree with NoWay for once! I better go lie down...

Pontop Pike, Redhill says...
12:47pm Fri 26 Sep 08

"I think it is immoral of the credit card companies to keep throwing money at young people in the way they do"

Maybe so, but people keep taking the offers on whilst living beyond their financial budget. I know so many poeple who do this, though in this case I`M NOT saying this is the case.

Education is fine, but there is no substitue for getting out there and earning a living.

Silverwing, Brighton says...
2:45pm Fri 26 Sep 08

What a sad story. It is not only students that have these problems. Before Credit Cards you had HP, this needed a deposit and you had a number of months payment at a set cost - You knew when it would be paid-up and ended. Salary was paid in Cash weekly. Gone are these days of self-control. A gew years back the Govt. said about Credit Card concerns having their Interest rates "looked at" Never Happened and they charge such high rates, very seldom lowering when the going is good. They like the Bank breed on people - I was a few pounds over my overdraft for approx 2 weeks and my well know Bank charged me £75 + Interest - so to get right i need another £88!!!!
Great... all the Banks go under and the City people who have been getting 70+K Bonuses - then, and only then will we all get back to a more Normal way of life!

whatithink, Brighton says...
5:22pm Fri 26 Sep 08

NoWay wrote:
Here's why students are in debt;A while ago, Uni was state funded. Only the brightest people got in, though.But now the government is obsessed with getting idiots in to uni, there's no money left for the people who actually deserve it! Stop trying to get stupid kids in to uni, leave it to the people who are actually good enough! FREE UP THE MONEY, STOP THE DEBT!
Absolutely right.
As regards banks pushing credit cards on people and all the debt being their fault. It isn't. Everyone has the option to say no - and if they still insist on you having a credit (as opposed to debit card) just cut it up. Take responsibility for your own actions, rather than blame others.
Having said that, it's still a tragic waste of a life. It's such a shame that she didn't realise that there's plenty of help out there for people in that position.

4n0nym05s, brighton says...
6:28pm Fri 26 Sep 08

Obviously it is very sad when someone feels that they have no alternative but to commit suicide, especially when it is over money problems, something that can be (if not always easily or painlessly) sorted out. However, an individual has to take some responsibility for their own actions.

A number of questions arise from this article. As £40,000 is a very large sum of money, even for a student. Surely at some point this woman would have known that her debts were getting out of hand, before it reached this desperate point?

It seems she lived on her parent's property, hence no rent or mortgage to pay? So what was the money spent on? Struggling just to live or to feed a family day by day, or a lifestyle far out of her means? It says she had many close friends and family, so did none of them not ever wonder where all her money was coming from if she hadn't worked for many years?

Maybe the saddest thing of all, is that surrounded as she was by people, she must have felt extremely alone with her problems. Perhaps there was more to all of this than meets the eye.

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