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Pregnant woman told to leave Hove pub


A pregnant woman was ordered out of a pub after pub staff saw her sipping beer.

Caroline Williams, who is 23 weeks pregnant, said she felt humiliated after being told to leave the Sussex Cricketer pub in Eaton Road, Hove.

The 26-year-old, who lives in the same road, had visited the pub on a rare night out to meet friends.

She had drunk one pint of lager when the pub's assistant manager refused to serve her friend a half pint which he was trying to buy for her.

And when she took a sip from a friend's glass, bar staff demanded that she leave.

Mrs Williams said: "The manageress said she was going to have to ask me and my friends to leave.

"I've never felt so singled out and humiliated in my life.

"I don't drink a great deal even when not pregnant.

"I have never been removed from any establishment before and I'm not one to cause a scene, so I left when asked."

Mrs Williams said the other members of her group were quiet professionals, the youngest of whom was 44.

She said: "I know the manager reserves the right to refuse anyone service without needing to give them a reason, but it is not illegal for a pregnant woman to purchase alcohol unless she is under age.

"I wasn't putting any other customers or staff in any danger or causing a threat.

"She was using her right to refuse me alcohol to exercise her own personal opinions and prejudices.

"I don't wish for anyone in my position to be treated like this again, with the same force and attitude as that required for drunk and disorderly customers, or underage law-breakers."

An assistant manager at the pub confirmed she had asked the group to leave on Saturday night.

She said: "My concern was that she was going to keep drinking and that it may be a concern for me if she was drunk on the premises.

"She was a heavily pregnant lady drinking alcohol.

"It is not my place to say what s morally right and wrong but my duty is for the safety of my guests.

"I asked them to leave because I didn t want her friends buying drinks for her and something happening to her or her unborn baby."

Comments(93)

margaret thatcher says...
2:07pm Tue 31 Mar 09

is the baby going to be called waynetta

censored says...
2:08pm Tue 31 Mar 09

"I asked them to leave because I didn t want her friends buying drinks for her and something happening to her or her unborn baby."


Not your problem, love. Just serve the drink and leave the social care to the NHS.

Sweepster says...
2:14pm Tue 31 Mar 09

"I wasn't putting any other customers or staff in any danger".

No, just the health of your unborn baby.

Tye says...
2:15pm Tue 31 Mar 09

OK possibly the pub was being over cautious BUT as they can be sued by drunks for selling them booze whilst inebriated it can only be a matter of time before NUlabour enforce this everywhere!

feline1 says...
2:15pm Tue 31 Mar 09

No doubt her baby will protest its "human rights" were being violated by not being allowed to drink alcohol.

Charismatic Andrew says...
2:17pm Tue 31 Mar 09

The assistant manager at the pub sounds like a complete moron.

She says it's not her place to say what's morally right or wrong, but then says she didn't want anything to happen to the unborn baby.

People this stupid shouldn't be allowed to work in pubs. Not when people's safety depends on it.

jo w says...
2:38pm Tue 31 Mar 09

I'd hardly call her 'stupid' or a 'moron' Charismatic Andrew, perhaps over cautious but that's the society we're forced to live in these days. If she was forcing a pregnant woman to drink alcohol that would be stupid or moronic, not the other way around. Some would say she was showing the sense that perhaps the pregnant lady was lacking.

pancaker says...
2:40pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Opting to drink a pint and then order another half when 6 months pregnant kind of negates the validity of any opinion you have I'm afraid.

rudechris says...
2:42pm Tue 31 Mar 09

The manager should pay more attention to the people sniffing cocaine in the toilets than victimising the poor woman who is clearly not a drunk, just enjoying a night out with friends.

lovebug says...
2:50pm Tue 31 Mar 09

i think it was very thoughtful of the bar staff to be concerned for the wellbeing of mother + child, imagine the possible outcome had she been allowed to carry on drinking with no intervention then the barstaff would have been in the wrong knowing that she was drinking, they cant win either way eh? but i say good for them!!!better to be safe than sorry

Granny says...
3:01pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Did the member of staff have a crystal ball behind the bar telling her that the poor woman customer was going to get plastered! Surely it is up to the customer to decide what she does - talk about Big Brother.

censored says...
3:14pm Tue 31 Mar 09

I'm sure the commenters above are aware of the latest research which shows light alcohol intake during pregnancy is safe and possibly beneficial.

Dingbat99 says...
3:15pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Since when were bar staff qualified medics?
Alcohol is a danger to unformed babies before 16 weeks, not later in the pregnancy.
Judgemental attitudes when a little knowledge is dangerous.

chris elmes says...
3:22pm Tue 31 Mar 09

First they stopped the smokers, now it starts against the drinkers

Redbeard says...
3:22pm Tue 31 Mar 09

I can't believe she had a whole pint and was going to have more...my wife is pregnant and all she has had since finding out is literally two sips of my ale on different occasions. I want to give my child the best chance possible so we both feel that drinking is out until after the birth. Even then it is going to be a while as alcohol can effect the milk durring breast feeding. Still the good old NHS will bail them out...

Human Machine says...
3:23pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Dingbat is right...it's only the first 4 months when there is a risk to the foetus. Of course if the woman has been drunk then that would have been a different matter - but she wasn't, was she? This kind of safety-nazi attitude makes me very uncomfortable.

feline1 says...
3:27pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Sorry to cloud this issue with some actual facts, but after spending 10 seconds with the search function on the NHS direction, I discovered quite clear advice to wholly avoid alcohol when pregnant.
Here's the link.
http://www.nhs.uk/ch
q/Pages/2270.aspx?Ca
tegoryID=54&SubCateg
oryID=131

Txa says...
3:28pm Tue 31 Mar 09

censored wrote:
I'm sure the commenters above are aware of the latest research which shows light alcohol intake during pregnancy is safe and possibly beneficial.
yeah, like guiness is good when pregnant because of the iron content!?

Redbeard says...
3:41pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Txa wrote:
censored wrote: I'm sure the commenters above are aware of the latest research which shows light alcohol intake during pregnancy is safe and possibly beneficial.
yeah, like guiness is good when pregnant because of the iron content!?
It used to be good for you in the old days when they still made it with ox blood, then when people did not have a nutritious diet it helped with the iron etc.

Sidewinder says...
4:12pm Tue 31 Mar 09

How the hell did the bar staff even know that she was pregnant!!

Dickens Cider says...
4:13pm Tue 31 Mar 09

I feel sorry for her having been asked to leave, that must have been incredibly embarrassing.

There will always be conflicting information on whether it's good/bad to have alcohol whilst pregnant but ultimately that is her decision to make, not for others to make for her.

Yeah sure if she was steaming drunk, creating a fuss and falling over, then don't serve her. But for a quiet civilised drink I personally think this was too extreme.

Over-protective in the extreme...

Bob100 says...
4:19pm Tue 31 Mar 09

margaret thatcher wrote:
is the baby going to be called waynetta
Or Stella...

mackeson says...
4:27pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Just remember that a few years ago, certainly in my time when in hospital you got a bottle of milk-stout every day to keep up the strength etc. Now what was the name of that drink???

feline1 says...
4:27pm Tue 31 Mar 09

I bet she can't wait until the baby's born so she can refuse to have it vaccinated and chuckle whilst it gets measles and polio.

leedsnowfan says...
4:28pm Tue 31 Mar 09

finally someone sticking up for the unborn! also theres less iron in guiness than in a glass or red wine...

security word: baby-pint

leedsnowfan says...
4:29pm Tue 31 Mar 09

p.s. oops - last comment should say "than in a glass of red wine

kkj says...
4:31pm Tue 31 Mar 09

If the reasons for refusing this woman more drink are as stated, i.e. out of medical concern for both the woman and her her unborn baby, one hopes that the staff exercise the same judgement with the remainder of their clientele and refuse to serve anyone who has already had their daily recommended maximum number of units.

I'd say that the assistant manager acted prematurely and undiplomatically, however good her intentions.

Oh, and Sidewinder, was that a serious question?

Osama bin there says...
4:36pm Tue 31 Mar 09

I think a pint a half of lager is probably a bit excessive for a pregnant lady. But then I would see that as her problem, not mine.
Jobsworth and nanny state alert methinks.

Peacehaven Paul says...
4:41pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Are we to assume that this pub is owned by the NHS and that all staff are qualified medical practitioners? Will they be handing out prescriptions next?

Wivvy Dave says...
4:47pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Advice to any pregnat woman in Hove - Avoid the Cricketers.

It would be nice to know if this woman was binge drinking - I maen was the half just to keep her busy whilst the men drank their pints or had she been sipping the first pint for over an hour. If the latter is the case then manager probably wanted her out so that she could fill the space with a real drinker.

This is the truth the security words are "baby-drop". Come on Argus you can't expect me to complain that this is a coincidence.

Mary Hinge says...
4:59pm Tue 31 Mar 09

"It is not my place to say what s morally right and wrong" said the assistant manager.

So why did you throw her out then you moron???!!

tinkywinky says...
5:13pm Tue 31 Mar 09

censored wrote:
I'm sure the commenters above are aware of the latest research which shows light alcohol intake during pregnancy is safe and possibly beneficial.
Yeah yeah yeah and so is smack I suppose.

yorkie44 says...
5:15pm Tue 31 Mar 09

A pint and a half seems quite a lot for a woman who claims not to drink a great deal and hardly goes out, pregnant or not.

geewhizz says...
5:16pm Tue 31 Mar 09

This story is another example of why it's better to stay at home and not bother going out to pubs.

On Saturday, a rugby player gets stabbed repeatedly in a bar at Shoreham. On Tuesday, an over-protective, busy-body assistant manager starts calling who can and cannot drink, and then chucks a group of very obviously non-yobs out of her pub.

last weekend I went for a 'traditional home-cooked Sunday lunch' in a local pub, and it was about as homecooked as something you'd get a McDonalds - to say it was microwaved to death is an understatement - dirty tables, screaming children, morose staff, dirty loos and then to cap it all one of the 'we hope you enjoyed your visit, we certainly enjoyed serving you today' notices on the way out.

Well i didn't enjoy my visit, and your Sunday roast took all of about 30 minutes to come whizzing out of my body and I spent most of Monday at work stragetically placed near the loo...

British pubs! Do me a favour, sooner the all close and stop whinging the better.

Save some money, buy from the offie, invite some friends around and you get no hassle from the sort of self-appointed public health guardians as at the cricketers.


cheezburger says...
6:20pm Tue 31 Mar 09

This woman obviously thinks she has been wronged, but now she just looks stupid. I like how the Argus starts the article with 'sipping a beer'. If she had been from Whitehawk it would have taken a different tack.


Scoomer says...
6:21pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Remember how, a few weeks back, YourArgus were asking us all to contribute to its interactive map of pubs which had closed? Can I nominate the Cricketers as a likely future entry?

getreal says...
6:23pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Good for the waitress for making a stand.

cheezburger says...
6:26pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Not one to cause a scene? Then why did you ring the Argus? Hoping for a free pint from somewhere else?

cheezburger says...
6:33pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Also after the friends were refused a half pint for her she then tries to take a sip from someone else glass. Was she desperate or something? Sounds like she was settled in for the night.

Guerrero says...
6:34pm Tue 31 Mar 09

I have to say that I am totally gobsmacked by this story.
Maybe to cut costs,Britain should get rid of all of its GP's and put barmaids in their place.
Whatever happened to freedom of choice?

cheezburger says...
6:39pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Guerrero wrote:
I have to say that I am totally gobsmacked by this story. Maybe to cut costs,Britain should get rid of all of its GP's and put barmaids in their place. Whatever happened to freedom of choice?
Or the freedom to possibly harm your baby due to drinking whilst pregnant. Its a no brainer.

misscake says...
6:54pm Tue 31 Mar 09

its none of anyone else's business what this lady does.

its entirely up to any pregnant woman what she does when pregnant.

not for any of you to decide.

if any pregnant woman were craving something strange, like coal for example, would you say its bad for the baby?

Or even more ridiculous that she is adding to carbon emissions by eating coal?

come on people, get on with your own lives and leave other people alone.

Alan G Skinner says...
7:01pm Tue 31 Mar 09

What on earth in a lady who is 23 weeks pregnant doing in a pub, that's bad enough. If she had been sipping an orange juice or lemonade, that would have been just about acceptable, but downing a pint of strong larger and then going back for more, that is just appaling. A pregnant women downing pints of larger in a pub, that's the worst thing i have ever heard, she is vile. The publican was absolutely correct for asking herto leave, what on earth was she thinking, surely people are not this ignorant

kkj says...
7:11pm Tue 31 Mar 09

The pub has issued an apology to the lady concerned, as reported on teletext:

http://www.teletext.
co.uk/regionalnews/s
ouththamesvalley/6de
e62a601069e08e523076
dde9a0a81/Pub+apolog
y+to+pregnant+woman.
aspx


VoiceofUnreason says...
7:12pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Good.Irresponsible to be knocking 'em back when you are carrying a nipper.....she should be at 'ome knittin' some mittens and building a crib not gettin' bladdered

Cara_G says...
7:16pm Tue 31 Mar 09

If the staff were so outraged in the first place why did they serve her the first pint? I have no objection to a pregnant woman being in a bar, its a place to socialise and if they arent drinking how is it different to sitting in a cafe. But if they were so worried why serve her a pint to start with? or not ask them to leave when they first realised she was drinking while pregnant???

Mrs Reasonable says...
7:43pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Given that even the professionals can't seem to agree if alcohol may be harmful during any stage of pregnancy, wouldn't the sensible thing be to just abstain totally whilst pregnant, just in case? I mean, it's only nine months - surely, for the health of the child, a mother could do without alcohol for that time? It just seems like common sense to me . . . . . .

This mother might have been enjoying a night out with friends but enjoying yourself doesn't always have to involve alcohol, pregnant or not.

TheInsider says...
8:08pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Once the brat has come out of her she will be the first to moan that someone is smoking near her baby, or complaining that she can't breast feed in public or someone has parked in the mother and toddler bay.
I am sick of whining parents or parents to be. They want the whole world to worship them and their rights (including years of maternity leave their employers have to pick the tab up for) and yet when they go to the pub boozing they get huffy when someone attempts to take care of them. We have been told for years pregnant women should not drink or smoke so she should give it a rest.
She should go home and be a mother and stop whining because if the baby is born with any problems she will be the first to blame someone else.

S.T. Rewth says...
8:21pm Tue 31 Mar 09

The Assistant Manager should be told wher to stick her concerns. Interfering stuck up cow!

feline1 says...
8:24pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Silly woman, she should have ordered "baby cham", as it is designed specifically to be kinder to a baby's delicate constitution.

BOOZE F'T'BABY?

Gruntfuttock says...
9:07pm Tue 31 Mar 09

I was with the young lady when this happend,I hardly think that 1 pint of lager in an hour and a half is excessive,mind you with the state of the bar service she would have been lucky to get any more drink in that time,the only harm she would have done to her child was that it coould have died of thirst.The 8 of us will not be using that bar again,sullen sulky staff,it was noticed that when two rather large people(what used to be called fat,before the thought police banned the word,)ordered food,she did not say no potatoes or pudding for you, as you are to large,still we were lucky to have a midwife moonlighting as a bar manager that night

TheInsider says...
9:15pm Tue 31 Mar 09

I am glad you wont be going in there again. Pubs used to be for adults now all these yummy mummies and muesli dads are ruining the great British pub by dragging their bratty offspring into pubs and now they are coming into bars when they haven't even dropped their kids.
If you get pregnant or have kids stay at home. No-one under 18 should be boozing and that includes a foetus.

Psycho Bob says...
9:36pm Tue 31 Mar 09

About time this NANNY STATE wound it's neck in, a long with the Do GOODERS. If the lady wants' a beer let her have a beer.
Most beer these days is like maidens water.


Andaxi says...
9:51pm Tue 31 Mar 09

I think this is just a storm in a beer glass. She must have concieved when drunk and was probably hoping for a second bash of it....she could well have found another drunk in there.

MrsW says...
10:00pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Alan G Skinner, Brighton says...
7:01pm Tue 31 Mar 09

What on earth in a lady who is 23 weeks pregnant doing in a pub, that's bad enough. If she had been sipping an orange juice or lemonade, that would have been just about acceptable, but downing a pint of strong larger and then going back for more, that is just appaling. A pregnant women downing pints of larger in a pub, that's the worst thing i have ever heard, she is vile. The publican was absolutely correct for asking herto leave, what on earth was she thinking, surely people are not this ignorant-
I suppose she should have been at home in the kitchen where she belongs. 'If she had been sipping an orange juice or lemonade, that would have been just about acceptable' why only just about? No smoking in pubs allows people to enjoy light social activity without a polluted atmosphere. Now, if they could just do something about the people... Also, when did you suddenly decide that she was DOWNING a pint? Talk about twisting words and over-dramatising a statement. Ever thought of working for ITN? Might want to learn to spell first though...

Txa says...
10:03pm Tue 31 Mar 09

At the end of the day. All establisments have reserved the right of admission. Everybody knows that.

Guerrero says...
10:21pm Tue 31 Mar 09

cheezburger wrote:
Guerrero wrote: I have to say that I am totally gobsmacked by this story. Maybe to cut costs,Britain should get rid of all of its GP's and put barmaids in their place. Whatever happened to freedom of choice?
Or the freedom to possibly harm your baby due to drinking whilst pregnant. Its a no brainer.
You'd better start getting MacDonalds staff to chuck out the parents of the fat kids who have actually been born then mate.Start arresting parents who smoke indoors and,then invade countries like Spain and France which allow children small amounts of alcohol with a meal yet have none of the teenage alcohol problems that you have in Britain.
Give me a sensible comeback on that.Without using the F word if you can.
security word:beer-fest

TheInsider says...
10:21pm Tue 31 Mar 09

The next part of this story and a good publicity coup would be for another pub to offer her a pint and a half. She could then have her photo taken sinking a few...as she is pregnant perhaps the Basketmakers would be appropriate.
However, not many landlords seem to be willing to take the chance as most people find pregnant women drinking or smoking unacceptable.

Guerrero says...
10:42pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Pregnant women in Brighton will be driven underground.Forced to pretend that they are coca cola drinking,kentucky gorging fat ****,rather than owning up to being pregnant.
All so they can get a half of lager shandy.LOL.
People of Brighton,you are rapidly becoming the most PC,Holier than Thou,up your own bottoms,Nanny knows best Town(You're not a real City)in the Country.
Take a chill pill.LOL.

Psycho Bob says...
11:05pm Tue 31 Mar 09

However, not many landlords seem to be willing to take the chance as most people find pregnant women drinking or smoking unacceptable.
.
.
My Daisie is 8 months pregnant, smokes 20 cigs a day and still drinks the usual 5 bottles of Speckled Hen at the local a good job she don't live in the PC correct city of Brighton.

kkj says...
11:52pm Tue 31 Mar 09

Guerrero wrote:
Pregnant women in Brighton will be driven underground.Forced to pretend that they are coca cola drinking,kentucky gorging fat ****,rather than owning up to being pregnant.
All so they can get a half of lager shandy.LOL.
People of Brighton,you are rapidly becoming the most PC,Holier than Thou,up your own bottoms,Nanny knows best Town(You're not a real City)in the Country.
Take a chill pill.LOL.
Hove, actually!

Guerrero says...
12:11am Wed 1 Apr 09

¡Cualqier!
Hove,Brighton.
You're losing it big time.
It's time to start choosing your own directions and making your own decisions.
Being a sheep and following may be easy,but the people of Brighton(and Hove and surrounding areas) surely have more gumption than that?
security word:easy-lies.

margaret thatcher says...
8:05am Wed 1 Apr 09

boyvott the pub,she should be sacked,what right does she have on 5 pounds an hour,im going to contact the inland rev to make sure she isnt signing on too

Tye says...
8:06am Wed 1 Apr 09

Sidewinder wrote:
How the hell did the bar staff even know that she was pregnant!!
Surely a case for sexual education in sKools
clue- ladys tumtums get biggy :)

King from Hove says...
8:52am Wed 1 Apr 09

Pathetic staff.On principle will no longer visit this pub which I believe is part of Mitchells and Butler whose shares have nosedived.No wonder.

Alan G Skinner says...
9:05am Wed 1 Apr 09

MrsW. I apologise for my appalling spelling and grammar in my initial response to this tragic story, but I had just come back from an exclusive gentleman’s club where I had been indulging in vast quantities of Dom Perignon, Cuban Cigars and snorting Coke of models hips. I unreservedly apologise for my disgraceful wielding of the English language. Now, once again, because I frankly still cannot believe it; a woman, a women who is, (claims to be) 23 weeks pregnant in a public house abusing alcohol. This is so disgraceful; my limited diction cannot adiquately articulate my contempt for this horrible individual. There is no place for this type of behaviour, or lack there of, in polite society. I weep for the future; is there no decency. I hope social services have already begun to investigate this entirely distasteful affair.

tinkywinky says...
10:09am Wed 1 Apr 09

Bob100 wrote:
Everyones been very judgemental of this lady without knowing the full facts. I'm sure there is no intention on her behalf to harm her unborn baby. And as for the idiot who is likening a pint & a half of larger to taking crack or child abuse, I suggest you take a long hard look at your comment. Your a disgrace and obviously not very well educated. The point I feel that is trying to be made is that because of her condition it should not allow people to judge her and make her feel humiliated.
Oy Bob aged 100!
'People should not be allowed to judge her because of her condition'?

First class idiot.

My mrs would have been at home preparing for the birth not getting bladdered. Its disgusting.No thought at all for her unborn vulnerable child. I notice the Chatsworth estate (Shameless!) lot are on here unsurprisedly supporting this silly woman.

Hovegirl says...
12:25pm Wed 1 Apr 09

Has anyone stopped to think of the risk she was putting on her baby. If they had continued serving her and something had happened to the baby would you all than still be thinking the pub should of carried on serving her.

Well done to the barmaid and all the staff at the Cricketers, nice to see someone cares about a person more than their takings.


Hovegirl says...
1:00pm Wed 1 Apr 09

censored wrote:
"I asked them to leave because I didn t want her friends buying drinks for her and something happening to her or her unborn baby." Not your problem, love. Just serve the drink and leave the social care to the NHS.
Well Down to you. Just goes to show there are some caring people around and Mrs Williams should be ashamed of herself for making all this fuss.

Hovegirl says...
1:05pm Wed 1 Apr 09

King from Hove wrote:
Pathetic staff.On principle will no longer visit this pub which I believe is part of Mitchells and Butler whose shares have nosedived.No wonder.
So you would of preferred it if the "woman" was allowed to drink her self stupid and most probably end up miscarrying.

Now whose the pathetic one?

Alan G Skinner says...
1:27pm Wed 1 Apr 09

Williams should apologise for her disgraceful conduct and release a statement saying what she did was distasteful, inappropriate and that she had acted completely irresponsibly and should she should warn other young mothers of the danger of abusing alcohol while pregnant.

buzzy says...
2:02pm Wed 1 Apr 09

This is to Censored who wrote that light alcohol consumption was beneficial and safe? ok may be a small amount but a pint? and another half. You are all sitting here judging this one woman (The manageress) who actual cared for a stranger, I'm sure you all dont want to live in a society where no one gives a rubbish about anyone? Have we really become that ungrateful and self centred that we don't realise when people are trying to help. This woman should think of herself as a disgrace to firstly be going to the papers about someone trying to look out for her well being and the babies! what you guys don't realise is that not only had she already drank one pint she was drinking her friends drinks and smoking outside. What mother to be would stroke her belly while holding a pint glass?? Classy....

(margaret thatcher, downing st says...
8:05am Wed 1 Apr 09

boyvott the pub,she should be sacked,what right does she have on 5 pounds an hour,im going to contact the inland rev to make sure she isnt signing on too)

And to this dick that wrote this post get a life! just because 90% of the country are claiming benefits don't go shooting your mouth off at the small percentage of people that actually work in this god for saken country! and btw.... the manageress's tax and probably yours is going to be keeping her baby! so the next time your tired working your arse off and being treated like dirt by your boss just remember your funding her child and her booze habit oh and the cigarette habit. I wonder if the baby will enjoy a nice lager like it's mum? what sort of woman drinks out of a pint glass anyway? trash...

buzzy says...
2:06pm Wed 1 Apr 09

btw Mrs Williams you should feel humiliated the only reason why you do is because someone showed you up for the type of person you really are!

buzzy says...
3:10pm Wed 1 Apr 09

http://www.timesonli
ne.co.uk/tol/life_an
d_style/health/artic
le3602704.ece

Go to this site, food for thought people!

margaret thatcher says...
4:30pm Wed 1 Apr 09

buzzy wrote:
This is to Censored who wrote that light alcohol consumption was beneficial and safe? ok may be a small amount but a pint? and another half. You are all sitting here judging this one woman (The manageress) who actual cared for a stranger, I'm sure you all dont want to live in a society where no one gives a rubbish about anyone? Have we really become that ungrateful and self centred that we don't realise when people are trying to help. This woman should think of herself as a disgrace to firstly be going to the papers about someone trying to look out for her well being and the babies! what you guys don't realise is that not only had she already drank one pint she was drinking her friends drinks and smoking outside. What mother to be would stroke her belly while holding a pint glass?? Classy.... (margaret thatcher, downing st says... 8:05am Wed 1 Apr 09 boyvott the pub,she should be sacked,what right does she have on 5 pounds an hour,im going to contact the inland rev to make sure she isnt signing on too) And to this dick that wrote this post get a life! just because 90% of the country are claiming benefits don't go shooting your mouth off at the small percentage of people that actually work in this god for saken country! and btw.... the manageress's tax and probably yours is going to be keeping her baby! so the next time your tired working your arse off and being treated like dirt by your boss just remember your funding her child and her booze habit oh and the cigarette habit. I wonder if the baby will enjoy a nice lager like it's mum? what sort of woman drinks out of a pint glass anyway? trash...
your the dick mate,get a life its a bit of fun,god id hate for you to be my dad,do u know what ur kids get up to if you have any,leave the girl alone,shes got enough problems bringing up this baby in this **** hole of a country as it is,do one mate

buzzy says...
5:42pm Wed 1 Apr 09

I'm a woman actually and have no kids but have worked in the childcare industry and your right it is a **** hole because of people like you

Jo PP says...
6:17pm Wed 1 Apr 09

Good grief!

In the day before scans and wonderful home pregnancy tests - you could be 3 months pregnant without knowing it... what then? God forbid if you were drinking pre-dinner G&Ts every night... i didn't hear anyone screaming child abuse then. Also, i hardly call force feeding pregnant rats pure alcohol and through this, determining the effects on human embreyos to be a conclusive! If the same person requested a packet of cigerettes - what then? should they be refused? Yet Smoking is proven to have impacts to unborn babies... Seriously, when your back aches, your ankles are swollen and you feel like a bit fat weeble - a glass of Chardonnay once in a while worked wonders! - yes, i did occasionally drink too... and thoroughly enjoyed it.

Alan G Skinner says...
6:42pm Wed 1 Apr 09

This women is a DISGRACE!!!!!!!!!!!

Jo PP says...
7:40pm Wed 1 Apr 09

Who Me??

You really do need to get some perspective......

I'm being honest and I am not a disgrace.

The odd tipple really does not make any different to an unborn baby although drinking regularly whilst pregnant really is a no-no.

margaret thatcher says...
7:49pm Wed 1 Apr 09

buzzy wrote:
I'm a woman actually and have no kids but have worked in the childcare industry and your right it is a **** hole because of people like you
thats why you have no children with an attitude like that,ive rang the inland rev already,this preg women has a case to,so i hope she takes the pub to court and they go out of business,its a **** hole anyway,serving crap food and the beer is watered down,work in the childcare ind,that means your a helper on even less min wage,haha

Psycho Bob says...
8:08pm Wed 1 Apr 09

buzzy wrote:
I'm a woman actually and have no kids but have worked in the childcare industry and your right it is a **** hole because of people like you
Here we go, the 'I don't have any kids brigade, but seem to think they know it all'.

Get a life you bunch of sheep.

As for Caroline Williams, I hope she gets a good wod of compensation.

TheInsider says...
8:46pm Wed 1 Apr 09

Many years ago doctors said thalidomide was safe. They said smoking while pregnant would not affect the baby.
Now they are saying small amounts of alcohol may not be harmful.
Would you trust a doctor?
She should stay at home in confinement and drink herself stupid once she's popped.

MrsW says...
11:36pm Wed 1 Apr 09

Alan G Skinner wrote:
MrsW. I apologise for my appalling spelling and grammar in my initial response to this tragic story, but I had just come back from an exclusive gentleman’s club where I had been indulging in vast quantities of Dom Perignon, Cuban Cigars and snorting Coke of models hips. I unreservedly apologise for my disgraceful wielding of the English language. Now, once again, because I frankly still cannot believe it; a woman, a women who is, (claims to be) 23 weeks pregnant in a public house abusing alcohol. This is so disgraceful; my limited diction cannot adiquately articulate my contempt for this horrible individual. There is no place for this type of behaviour, or lack there of, in polite society. I weep for the future; is there no decency. I hope social services have already begun to investigate this entirely distasteful affair.
You ARE a funny Gent aren't you?! I'm sure you realise that this is a matter that will ALWAYS have two sides, and no amount of throwing insults around will change that. You can't simply force your opinion upon people and expect them to suddenly agree with you, if you felt that strongly about it the desire to gain others' agreement you wouldn't choose such a forceful approach in doing so. It's exactly this kind of controlling male behavior that sends women running for the pub in the first place. The original point of the article if you remember was the rude way in which the assistant manageress dealt with her spontaneous decision to not serve Mrs Williams a drink. She treated her like a criminal without warning that this would be the outcome. It is NOT illegal and therefor was an unacceptable form of personal view infliction. I can assure you the woman concerned didn't contest the idea of a blanket policy, but feels very strongly that this needs to be something of which customers and publicans alike are aware, so that future humiliations of pregnant women can be avoided.
C

MrsW says...
12:13am Thu 2 Apr 09

Alan G Skinner wrote:
MrsW. I apologise for my appalling spelling and grammar in my initial response to this tragic story, but I had just come back from an exclusive gentleman’s club where I had been indulging in vast quantities of Dom Perignon, Cuban Cigars and snorting Coke of models hips. I unreservedly apologise for my disgraceful wielding of the English language. Now, once again, because I frankly still cannot believe it; a woman, a women who is, (claims to be) 23 weeks pregnant in a public house abusing alcohol. This is so disgraceful; my limited diction cannot adiquately articulate my contempt for this horrible individual. There is no place for this type of behaviour, or lack there of, in polite society. I weep for the future; is there no decency. I hope social services have already begun to investigate this entirely distasteful affair.
Oh and "Buzzy", you seem to have had a closer connection to this than the mere newspaper readers, and if I'm right in thinking who you are, you should be enjoying the benefits of tax payers for a while yourself now, while you seek new employment. Caring for mothers-to-be is warning them discreetly of the pub's policy before they get the chance to be humiliated by the refusal, not subjecting them to the stress of the unexpected embarrassing refusal, via a new acquaintance. There are ways of using authority, and this was, and I quote, "dealt with inappropriately". Oh and assuming she'll be claiming anything from the state is presumptuous when you know nothing about her.

MrsW says...
12:21am Thu 2 Apr 09

Hovegirl wrote:
censored wrote:
"I asked them to leave because I didn t want her friends buying drinks for her and something happening to her or her unborn baby." Not your problem, love. Just serve the drink and leave the social care to the NHS.
Well done you, I dont think anybody has actually mentioned the fact that not only was she drinking but also smoking quite heavily as well.
It hasn't been published anywhere that she was smoking, and her confirmation of these facts would be required to do so. Otherwise the person stating such a thing would be in danger of being sued for LIBEL. Bear that in mind, HOVEGIRL.

TheInsider says...
7:24am Thu 2 Apr 09

You cannot get legal aid for libel so I doubt very much that she could find the funds to fight such a case.
I saw this lady being interviewed on tv last night and it was very odd. She said she was with a group of new friends and trying to make a good impression when she was humiliated........we
ll if I met a pregnant woman for the first time I would be really shocked if they even had a small glass of wine when pregnant. From the comments on here, other people feel the same. What on earth was wrong with sipping an orange juice. And what was the first impression these people got of a young pregnant woman boozing? I hope it wasn't a job interview.
While the staff member may have been rude which is unacceptable, there is something very odd about a pregnant woman drinking alcohol. As pregnant women drinking booze is such an abhorrent idea to most people, the bar woman may have thought she had an alcoholic mother in her venue or someone with personal problems and therefore, you would not want your licence put at risk. Alcohol is a poison. Most pregnant women wont even take an aspirin or even dye their hair while pregnant let alone swig down something which is a known poison. This is all very weird.

sussex2 says...
7:37am Thu 2 Apr 09

'Advice to any pregnat woman in Hove - Avoid the Cricketers'unquote..


Advice to ANYONE in Hove should be to avoid the pub if it is to become the moral guardian of everyones standards..

MrsW says...
11:09am Thu 2 Apr 09

Luckily its law we have to abide by and not the uptight opinions of people who would conduct themselves in a different manner due to their CHOICE. Otherwise we may as well start insulting people and calling them VILE etc. for smoking and drinking in the first place, pregnant or otherwise. Or better still start attacking their religious inclinations due to their irresponsible consequences. Everyone is so quick to judge a pregnant woman for drinking 2 units of alcohol and smoking a couple of fags when who knows what skeletons hide in their closet. I'll bet not one of you is perfect. Lets all debate your weaknesses shall we? Once again, you're wasting your time as she's not interested in anyones approval, and certainly not everyone's approval, how naive would that be? YOU CANT PLEASE EVERYONE! She simply wanted to know why it wasn't clearly stated at the very beginning that these rules would be applied. If they had been then they would have been respected, as EVERYONE is entitled to their opinion, somewhat a pity its not restricted to people capable of giving it in an articulate and non-offensive way, but nevertheless. And as for making a good impression, I stress once again, its pretty closed minded to think that the majority of people agree and live by your opinion "insider", shocked by a pregnant woman drinking a glass of wine? You must be walking round with your eyes closed. A lot of people out there respect women who don't treat pregnancy like a disease and are relaxed and liberal enough to still enjoy an occasional drink once past the early stages.
Bottom line is this: Make a decision as a publican what your stance is, and make that stance clear so that pregnant women hoping to enjoy a drink, and they do exist, can be pre-warned and have the opportunity to respect that decision whilst in the pub. Authority gives you the right to make a decision, but not the right to force the opinion of the customer's life choices onto the customer. There's a perfectly suitable space outside to state this policy next to the sign regarding the rules about under 14s.

Alan G Skinner says...
11:28am Thu 2 Apr 09

There is no question about it, unescorted females in public houses is entirely inappropriate. A mother who is with child in a public house is unforgivable. If Ms Williams had an ounce of decency, she would beg forgiveness for her dreadful conduct and i think it would be best for all concerned if she was moved away to the country.

Ferrari boy says...
12:20pm Thu 2 Apr 09

I have to say I love the picture of Caroline it's very conservative isn't it. Where are the pictures we all should see with all the alcohol around her on the news papers. I feel sorry for her baby as she is making a disastorous start to being a mother! This woman is milking it big time and I have to say she should be crawling under a rock with shame. This lady is a perfect example of not caring for her child which results in the end to BROKEN BRITAIN!!!

MrsW says...
12:30pm Thu 2 Apr 09

Alan G Skinner wrote:
There is no question about it, unescorted females in public houses is entirely inappropriate. A mother who is with child in a public house is unforgivable. If Ms Williams had an ounce of decency, she would beg forgiveness for her dreadful conduct and i think it would be best for all concerned if she was moved away to the country.
Brilliant, I'm sorry I ever doubted you, you are hilarious. All this time I thought you were being serious but now I realise its tongue in cheek irony. Can you imagine if there really were people out there that still believed women should stay at home and know their place unless chaperoned by a worthy male escort, oh Dahling! I'll bet she was talking without being spoken to first as well the young scally-wag, wherever was she dragged up? So we're going for a complete "no pregnant women allowed" policy in pubs as a new policy then are we? HERE HERE, why not electronically tag them and solve that problem straight away. I hear some of them actually have their own jobs as well, what is the world coming to?

El Burro says...
2:25pm Thu 2 Apr 09

MrsW wrote:
Alan G Skinner wrote: There is no question about it, unescorted females in public houses is entirely inappropriate. A mother who is with child in a public house is unforgivable. If Ms Williams had an ounce of decency, she would beg forgiveness for her dreadful conduct and i think it would be best for all concerned if she was moved away to the country.
Brilliant, I'm sorry I ever doubted you, you are hilarious. All this time I thought you were being serious but now I realise its tongue in cheek irony. Can you imagine if there really were people out there that still believed women should stay at home and know their place unless chaperoned by a worthy male escort, oh Dahling! I'll bet she was talking without being spoken to first as well the young scally-wag, wherever was she dragged up? So we're going for a complete "no pregnant women allowed" policy in pubs as a new policy then are we? HERE HERE, why not electronically tag them and solve that problem straight away. I hear some of them actually have their own jobs as well, what is the world coming to?
this is all very well, but why had she left the kitchen in the first place?

On a serious note, if by law you are not allowed to abort at 6 months, and the foetus is legally considered a person in their own right, by serving the woman is the landlord breaking the law?
She definitely has a case for discrimination, but whether the courts would see it that way is another matter.


benwithjamin says...
12:28am Sun 5 Apr 09

As Dr Eric Jauniaux, professor of obstetrics and foetal medicine at the Royal Free hospital in London, points out: "Alcohol is mainly metabolised by the liver, and only what's left will be met by the placenta. The amount that could reach the foetus in a glass of beer or a glass of wine is negligible."


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