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2:00pm Tuesday 31st March 2009 in
A pregnant woman was ordered out of a pub after pub staff saw her sipping beer.
Caroline Williams, who is 23 weeks pregnant, said she felt humiliated after being told to leave the Sussex Cricketer pub in Eaton Road, Hove.
The 26-year-old, who lives in the same road, had visited the pub on a rare night out to meet friends.
She had drunk one pint of lager when the pub's assistant manager refused to serve her friend a half pint which he was trying to buy for her.
And when she took a sip from a friend's glass, bar staff demanded that she leave.
Mrs Williams said: "The manageress said she was going to have to ask me and my friends to leave.
"I've never felt so singled out and humiliated in my life.
"I don't drink a great deal even when not pregnant.
"I have never been removed from any establishment before and I'm not one to cause a scene, so I left when asked."
Mrs Williams said the other members of her group were quiet professionals, the youngest of whom was 44.
She said: "I know the manager reserves the right to refuse anyone service without needing to give them a reason, but it is not illegal for a pregnant woman to purchase alcohol unless she is under age.
"I wasn't putting any other customers or staff in any danger or causing a threat.
"She was using her right to refuse me alcohol to exercise her own personal opinions and prejudices.
"I don't wish for anyone in my position to be treated like this again, with the same force and attitude as that required for drunk and disorderly customers, or underage law-breakers."
An assistant manager at the pub confirmed she had asked the group to leave on Saturday night.
She said: "My concern was that she was going to keep drinking and that it may be a concern for me if she was drunk on the premises.
"She was a heavily pregnant lady drinking alcohol.
"It is not my place to say what s morally right and wrong but my duty is for the safety of my guests.
"I asked them to leave because I didn t want her friends buying drinks for her and something happening to her or her unborn baby."
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censored
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2:08pm Tue 31 Mar 09
Sweepster
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Tye
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feline1
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Charismatic Andrew
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jo w
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pancaker
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rudechris
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lovebug
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Granny
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censored
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Dingbat99
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chris elmes
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Redbeard
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Human Machine
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feline1
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Txa
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3:28pm Tue 31 Mar 09
censored wrote:yeah, like guiness is good when pregnant because of the iron content!?
I'm sure the commenters above are aware of the latest research which shows light alcohol intake during pregnancy is safe and possibly beneficial.
Redbeard
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3:41pm Tue 31 Mar 09
Txa wrote:It used to be good for you in the old days when they still made it with ox blood, then when people did not have a nutritious diet it helped with the iron etc.
censored wrote: I'm sure the commenters above are aware of the latest research which shows light alcohol intake during pregnancy is safe and possibly beneficial.yeah, like guiness is good when pregnant because of the iron content!?
Sidewinder
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4:12pm Tue 31 Mar 09
Dickens Cider
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4:13pm Tue 31 Mar 09
Bob100
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4:19pm Tue 31 Mar 09
margaret thatcher wrote:Or Stella...
is the baby going to be called waynetta
mackeson
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feline1
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leedsnowfan
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leedsnowfan
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kkj
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Osama bin there
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Peacehaven Paul
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Wivvy Dave
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Mary Hinge
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tinkywinky
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5:13pm Tue 31 Mar 09
censored wrote:Yeah yeah yeah and so is smack I suppose.
I'm sure the commenters above are aware of the latest research which shows light alcohol intake during pregnancy is safe and possibly beneficial.
yorkie44
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geewhizz
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cheezburger
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Scoomer
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getreal
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cheezburger
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cheezburger
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Guerrero
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cheezburger
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6:39pm Tue 31 Mar 09
Guerrero wrote:Or the freedom to possibly harm your baby due to drinking whilst pregnant. Its a no brainer.
I have to say that I am totally gobsmacked by this story. Maybe to cut costs,Britain should get rid of all of its GP's and put barmaids in their place. Whatever happened to freedom of choice?
misscake
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6:54pm Tue 31 Mar 09
Alan G Skinner
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kkj
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VoiceofUnreason
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Cara_G
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Mrs Reasonable
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TheInsider
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S.T. Rewth
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feline1
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Gruntfuttock
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TheInsider
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Andaxi
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MrsW
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Txa
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Guerrero
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10:21pm Tue 31 Mar 09
cheezburger wrote:You'd better start getting MacDonalds staff to chuck out the parents of the fat kids who have actually been born then mate.Start arresting parents who smoke indoors and,then invade countries like Spain and France which allow children small amounts of alcohol with a meal yet have none of the teenage alcohol problems that you have in Britain.
Guerrero wrote: I have to say that I am totally gobsmacked by this story. Maybe to cut costs,Britain should get rid of all of its GP's and put barmaids in their place. Whatever happened to freedom of choice?Or the freedom to possibly harm your baby due to drinking whilst pregnant. Its a no brainer.
TheInsider
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10:21pm Tue 31 Mar 09
Guerrero
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Psycho Bob
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11:05pm Tue 31 Mar 09
kkj
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11:52pm Tue 31 Mar 09
Guerrero wrote:Hove, actually!
Pregnant women in Brighton will be driven underground.Forced to pretend that they are coca cola drinking,kentucky gorging fat ****,rather than owning up to being pregnant.
All so they can get a half of lager shandy.LOL.
People of Brighton,you are rapidly becoming the most PC,Holier than Thou,up your own bottoms,Nanny knows best Town(You're not a real City)in the Country.
Take a chill pill.LOL.
Guerrero
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12:11am Wed 1 Apr 09
margaret thatcher
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8:05am Wed 1 Apr 09
Tye
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8:06am Wed 1 Apr 09
Sidewinder wrote:Surely a case for sexual education in sKools
How the hell did the bar staff even know that she was pregnant!!
King from Hove
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8:52am Wed 1 Apr 09
Alan G Skinner
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tinkywinky
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10:09am Wed 1 Apr 09
Bob100 wrote:Oy Bob aged 100!
Everyones been very judgemental of this lady without knowing the full facts. I'm sure there is no intention on her behalf to harm her unborn baby. And as for the idiot who is likening a pint & a half of larger to taking crack or child abuse, I suggest you take a long hard look at your comment. Your a disgrace and obviously not very well educated. The point I feel that is trying to be made is that because of her condition it should not allow people to judge her and make her feel humiliated.
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12:25pm Wed 1 Apr 09
Hovegirl
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1:00pm Wed 1 Apr 09
censored wrote:Well Down to you. Just goes to show there are some caring people around and Mrs Williams should be ashamed of herself for making all this fuss.
"I asked them to leave because I didn t want her friends buying drinks for her and something happening to her or her unborn baby." Not your problem, love. Just serve the drink and leave the social care to the NHS.
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1:05pm Wed 1 Apr 09
King from Hove wrote:So you would of preferred it if the "woman" was allowed to drink her self stupid and most probably end up miscarrying.
Pathetic staff.On principle will no longer visit this pub which I believe is part of Mitchells and Butler whose shares have nosedived.No wonder.
Alan G Skinner
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buzzy
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buzzy
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buzzy
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margaret thatcher
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buzzy wrote:your the dick mate,get a life its a bit of fun,god id hate for you to be my dad,do u know what ur kids get up to if you have any,leave the girl alone,shes got enough problems bringing up this baby in this **** hole of a country as it is,do one mate
This is to Censored who wrote that light alcohol consumption was beneficial and safe? ok may be a small amount but a pint? and another half. You are all sitting here judging this one woman (The manageress) who actual cared for a stranger, I'm sure you all dont want to live in a society where no one gives a rubbish about anyone? Have we really become that ungrateful and self centred that we don't realise when people are trying to help. This woman should think of herself as a disgrace to firstly be going to the papers about someone trying to look out for her well being and the babies! what you guys don't realise is that not only had she already drank one pint she was drinking her friends drinks and smoking outside. What mother to be would stroke her belly while holding a pint glass?? Classy.... (margaret thatcher, downing st says... 8:05am Wed 1 Apr 09 boyvott the pub,she should be sacked,what right does she have on 5 pounds an hour,im going to contact the inland rev to make sure she isnt signing on too) And to this dick that wrote this post get a life! just because 90% of the country are claiming benefits don't go shooting your mouth off at the small percentage of people that actually work in this god for saken country! and btw.... the manageress's tax and probably yours is going to be keeping her baby! so the next time your tired working your arse off and being treated like dirt by your boss just remember your funding her child and her booze habit oh and the cigarette habit. I wonder if the baby will enjoy a nice lager like it's mum? what sort of woman drinks out of a pint glass anyway? trash...
buzzy
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Jo PP
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Alan G Skinner
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Jo PP
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margaret thatcher
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buzzy wrote:thats why you have no children with an attitude like that,ive rang the inland rev already,this preg women has a case to,so i hope she takes the pub to court and they go out of business,its a **** hole anyway,serving crap food and the beer is watered down,work in the childcare ind,that means your a helper on even less min wage,haha
I'm a woman actually and have no kids but have worked in the childcare industry and your right it is a **** hole because of people like you
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8:08pm Wed 1 Apr 09
buzzy wrote:Here we go, the 'I don't have any kids brigade, but seem to think they know it all'.
I'm a woman actually and have no kids but have worked in the childcare industry and your right it is a **** hole because of people like you
TheInsider
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MrsW
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Alan G Skinner wrote:You ARE a funny Gent aren't you?! I'm sure you realise that this is a matter that will ALWAYS have two sides, and no amount of throwing insults around will change that. You can't simply force your opinion upon people and expect them to suddenly agree with you, if you felt that strongly about it the desire to gain others' agreement you wouldn't choose such a forceful approach in doing so. It's exactly this kind of controlling male behavior that sends women running for the pub in the first place. The original point of the article if you remember was the rude way in which the assistant manageress dealt with her spontaneous decision to not serve Mrs Williams a drink. She treated her like a criminal without warning that this would be the outcome. It is NOT illegal and therefor was an unacceptable form of personal view infliction. I can assure you the woman concerned didn't contest the idea of a blanket policy, but feels very strongly that this needs to be something of which customers and publicans alike are aware, so that future humiliations of pregnant women can be avoided.
MrsW. I apologise for my appalling spelling and grammar in my initial response to this tragic story, but I had just come back from an exclusive gentleman’s club where I had been indulging in vast quantities of Dom Perignon, Cuban Cigars and snorting Coke of models hips. I unreservedly apologise for my disgraceful wielding of the English language. Now, once again, because I frankly still cannot believe it; a woman, a women who is, (claims to be) 23 weeks pregnant in a public house abusing alcohol. This is so disgraceful; my limited diction cannot adiquately articulate my contempt for this horrible individual. There is no place for this type of behaviour, or lack there of, in polite society. I weep for the future; is there no decency. I hope social services have already begun to investigate this entirely distasteful affair.
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12:13am Thu 2 Apr 09
Alan G Skinner wrote:Oh and "Buzzy", you seem to have had a closer connection to this than the mere newspaper readers, and if I'm right in thinking who you are, you should be enjoying the benefits of tax payers for a while yourself now, while you seek new employment. Caring for mothers-to-be is warning them discreetly of the pub's policy before they get the chance to be humiliated by the refusal, not subjecting them to the stress of the unexpected embarrassing refusal, via a new acquaintance. There are ways of using authority, and this was, and I quote, "dealt with inappropriately". Oh and assuming she'll be claiming anything from the state is presumptuous when you know nothing about her.
MrsW. I apologise for my appalling spelling and grammar in my initial response to this tragic story, but I had just come back from an exclusive gentleman’s club where I had been indulging in vast quantities of Dom Perignon, Cuban Cigars and snorting Coke of models hips. I unreservedly apologise for my disgraceful wielding of the English language. Now, once again, because I frankly still cannot believe it; a woman, a women who is, (claims to be) 23 weeks pregnant in a public house abusing alcohol. This is so disgraceful; my limited diction cannot adiquately articulate my contempt for this horrible individual. There is no place for this type of behaviour, or lack there of, in polite society. I weep for the future; is there no decency. I hope social services have already begun to investigate this entirely distasteful affair.
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12:21am Thu 2 Apr 09
Hovegirl wrote:It hasn't been published anywhere that she was smoking, and her confirmation of these facts would be required to do so. Otherwise the person stating such a thing would be in danger of being sued for LIBEL. Bear that in mind, HOVEGIRL.
censored wrote:Well done you, I dont think anybody has actually mentioned the fact that not only was she drinking but also smoking quite heavily as well.
"I asked them to leave because I didn t want her friends buying drinks for her and something happening to her or her unborn baby." Not your problem, love. Just serve the drink and leave the social care to the NHS.
TheInsider
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sussex2
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MrsW
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Alan G Skinner
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Ferrari boy
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MrsW
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Alan G Skinner wrote:Brilliant, I'm sorry I ever doubted you, you are hilarious. All this time I thought you were being serious but now I realise its tongue in cheek irony. Can you imagine if there really were people out there that still believed women should stay at home and know their place unless chaperoned by a worthy male escort, oh Dahling! I'll bet she was talking without being spoken to first as well the young scally-wag, wherever was she dragged up? So we're going for a complete "no pregnant women allowed" policy in pubs as a new policy then are we? HERE HERE, why not electronically tag them and solve that problem straight away. I hear some of them actually have their own jobs as well, what is the world coming to?
There is no question about it, unescorted females in public houses is entirely inappropriate. A mother who is with child in a public house is unforgivable. If Ms Williams had an ounce of decency, she would beg forgiveness for her dreadful conduct and i think it would be best for all concerned if she was moved away to the country.
El Burro
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2:25pm Thu 2 Apr 09
MrsW wrote:this is all very well, but why had she left the kitchen in the first place?
Alan G Skinner wrote: There is no question about it, unescorted females in public houses is entirely inappropriate. A mother who is with child in a public house is unforgivable. If Ms Williams had an ounce of decency, she would beg forgiveness for her dreadful conduct and i think it would be best for all concerned if she was moved away to the country.Brilliant, I'm sorry I ever doubted you, you are hilarious. All this time I thought you were being serious but now I realise its tongue in cheek irony. Can you imagine if there really were people out there that still believed women should stay at home and know their place unless chaperoned by a worthy male escort, oh Dahling! I'll bet she was talking without being spoken to first as well the young scally-wag, wherever was she dragged up? So we're going for a complete "no pregnant women allowed" policy in pubs as a new policy then are we? HERE HERE, why not electronically tag them and solve that problem straight away. I hear some of them actually have their own jobs as well, what is the world coming to?
benwithjamin
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12:28am Sun 5 Apr 09
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margaret thatcher says...
2:07pm Tue 31 Mar 09