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Book of condolence: Jonathan Carlos Bracho-Cooke

5:41pm Thursday 8th February 2007

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On Monday, February 5 Second Lieutenant Jonathan Carlos Bracho-Cooke, 24, from Sandringham Close, Hove, became the 100th member of the British armed forces to die in action in Iraq.

He was killed when a roadside bomb hit the Warrior patrol he was commanding in the As Sarraji district of Basra, near the city's US consulate.

We've set up on an online book of condolence dedicated to Jonathan. Please leave your messages below.

All the messages will be passed on to Jonathan's family.


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Helen Winterson, Blandford Camp says...
7:29pm Thu 8 Feb 07

I served with Jon in Bosnia in 2002. Jon was the kindest, politest, friendliest bloke I have ever met. I have spent the last two days looking fondly through my photos from that time and remembering his cheeky smile. My love goes to all the family. He was a lad anyone would be proud to know x

andy rice, Brighton says...
8:01pm Thu 8 Feb 07

My heart goes out to the family left behind , one day this war will end, but those who lost there lives must not be forgotten.

Yodi, Brighton says...
9:30pm Thu 8 Feb 07

John was a well liked character, whenever we met with friends for drinks it was constant laughter, never a dull moment. He'll be sorely missed, condolences to the family

Alisdair MacGilp, Yate says...
10:23pm Thu 8 Feb 07

I also served with Jon in Bosnia. Jon was a lovely bloke, always making me laugh when I needed it the most, one of the best. I'm happy that he got to live his dream and am glad to have been a friend.

John Wells, Brighton says...
10:31pm Thu 8 Feb 07

I went to both Cottesmore St. Marys Primary School and Cardinal Newman Catholic Secondary School and Sixth-Form College at the same time as Jonathan. I'll always remember him as being cheerful, funny and friendly. In our Business Studies lessons, he'd always be smiling, laughing and cracking jokes. This always had the effect of cheering the rest of us up, no matter how hard the work. My most fondest memory of Jon is from our end-of-college Prom. He saw that I was sitting at a table most of the night and so he came over to talk to me, bought me a drink and even got me up dancing later on. I only wish I'd both taken photos of the evening and kept in touch with him after college.
My sincerest condolences to his family. Your son will forever be in my thoughts and prayers.

antony, warrington says...
12:23am Fri 9 Feb 07

to the family and friends of jon my sincere condolences my close friend kingsman alex green was from the same regiment my thoughts are with you.

antony

Paul Beazer, Fallujah, IRAQ says...
4:54am Fri 9 Feb 07

I am a civilian working in Iraq and have been for almost 3 years. We only ever hear and see the bad in this country but they are the same as everywhere else. The good people outnumber the bad. we and they are paying for a wrong decision made some years ago. That is the true tragedy.

Lisa Putman, Brighton says...
9:49am Fri 9 Feb 07

I went to cardinal newman school. My thoughts are with the family. so sorry for your sad loss.

Jemma, Brighton says...
9:49am Fri 9 Feb 07

I spent time as a teenager with Jon, growing up and getting into mischief as you do. His loss brings great sadness to a lot of people who shared the same fun I did with him and whom lost contact as years passed by. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him, sincere condolences to the family and his fiancée. His memory will live on in our hearts.

Richard, 117-180 says...
10:49am Fri 9 Feb 07

No matter what your opinions are of the war, we must never forget the bravery and sacrifice that men like John have given.He is a credit to both his family and his country and i feel proud to have known him

Chris Ransley, Brighton says...
11:04am Fri 9 Feb 07

I attended Cardinal Newman School with Johnny and became close friends through college whilst on the same course but sadly lost contact after we left.

I will remember him as a good honest person who always had time for his friends and took his friendships very seriously. He was a natural talker, striking up conversations easily with the shyest of people and he was also an attentive listener. He had a fantastic sense of humour and an infectious laugh. He held a strong set of morals and would go out of his way to help people which is a credit to his parents who are two of the nicest and hospitable people I have ever had the privilege to have known.

My thoughts are with his family, fiancée and friends.

Patricia Maggs, Southwick says...
1:08pm Fri 9 Feb 07

Wishing the family & friends of Jonathan Carlos Bracho-Cooke
our sincere condolences.
Patricia & David Maggs

Steve Figg, Patcham says...
3:25pm Fri 9 Feb 07

I only knew Jonathan for a short time but whenever I had the pleasure of being in his company he always made me feel at ease. A real gentleman x

Nick, brighton says...
3:50pm Fri 9 Feb 07

I knew Jonathan at Cardinal Newman and only have fond memories I never got to congratulate Jonathan in passing out from Sandhurst a massive achievement. I am sure he will be missed by the men he commanded and all his friends and family.

emmie allen, brighton says...
4:44pm Fri 9 Feb 07

I went to school with jonathan's sister lucy and only really remember him as a boy, but heard through his mother about what he had achieved she was so very proud. I can only express my deepest condolences to lucy and her family and let them know you are in my thoughts and prays.
Emmie and family.

tony bingham, peacehaven says...
4:45pm Fri 9 Feb 07

unlike the many who have sent such moving tributes to Jonathans family & friends, we did not know Johnathan but we would like to pass on our heartfelt sympathy to you all at this tragically sad time, no words can compensate for the grief we know, but many will be thinking of you with pride & respect for the ultimate sacrifice our brave young men & women are called upon to be prepared to make on our behalf.

Chris O'Sullivan, Hove says...
5:34pm Fri 9 Feb 07

I was in the Army for 6 years and besides knowing Jonny from primary school, secondary school and VI form college i knew that he served in the TA Royal Signals. I was with 216 Parachute Signals, when back home on a weekend, i bumped into him in a nightclub, and he told me that he was going to Sandhurst to be an Officer. Despite having not seen him for a number of years prior to this chance meeting, we got on tremendously and it is a night i have run over in my head since i heard about his passing. I have lost several friends from the conflicts in Iraq and Afghanistan but none of their deaths have affected me as much as Jonny's. I will always remember you Jonny and i pray for your family and fiancée. Hasta Siempre

Phill Steeples, Sompting-Worthing says...
5:53pm Fri 9 Feb 07

I never knew John,that was my loss.I take each day in England for granted and like most of us I forget the reason I am able to have the freedom I have.That freedom is there because of people like John who do their job with pride and often forget the majority of people are with them in their thoughts a lot of the time.We are guilty of being complacent and it isnt until we hear of the sacrifice people like John and many others make that we realise what these people are prepared to risk to allow us the life we so often take for granted.
To Johns family we can offer our sympathy and cannot imagine their feeling of loss;but I hope we are allowed to share in their feeling of pride.
To Johns family,never let anyones political views cloud the memory of what your son died for;for John,there are no clouds.
God bless.

Julian Lazarus, Sussex says...
7:52pm Fri 9 Feb 07

I was John's team manager when he worked for LloydsTSB before he joined the army. He was a charming, highly principled young man and we had many chats about the danger of extremist Islam and how best to deal with it. His loss is tragic but i will always remember him for being such a thoroughly decent human being. All my love and best wishes to the family and his fiancee

Mike Freeman, Charlwood says...
11:41am Sat 10 Feb 07

Our sympathy goes out to Jonathan's family. He lost his life doing his duty and in that is an example to the rest of us. I hope Jonathan Snr. Patty and Lucy can draw a little comfort from that.

In sympathy Mike, Esperanza, Marcus, Sylvia & Rebecca

Stuart McHenery, York says...
2:48pm Sat 10 Feb 07

As a former military collegue, still serving, my thoughts are with BC's family and friends. He would have been doing what he thought right for his men and himself, and of that we should be proud.
This is a tragic loss for his family and the armed services. He was a fine soldier and a good person.

Tyson Pickett, says...
3:36pm Sat 10 Feb 07

I new Jonathon through serving with 884 troop and it was with great saddness that I heard of his death.
I will remember Jonathan for the good times we had whilst on exercise and the laughs we had late at night when going out of our minds through lack of sleep.
Jonathan, i will mourn your passing but remember you with a smile and a beer Cheers Mate for the good times.

Matt Cox, Alton, Hants says...
3:55pm Sat 10 Feb 07

As a friend and comrade of Jon's whilst he was in the TA. I'll always remember him as someone who worked hard and played harder. My thoughs are of him and for his family during these tough times. Coxy

Stuart Ridgwell, Brighon - Hove says...
5:37pm Sat 10 Feb 07

I remember Jon as a young lad at the age of 17 when he joined 884 Troop in Brighton, he always was a keen enthusiastic Royal Signals soldier, that always did well. There never seemed to be much that got him down. After hearing the tragic news, I’ve just been remembering all the good times we had with him in 884 troop and the times out socialising.

My heart goes out to his family and his fiancée. He will be very sadly missed.

Ridgey

George Coombs, Hove says...
5:40pm Sat 10 Feb 07

Just to extend sympathy and good wishes to this fine young man's family at this time

Amanda Susini, Beckenham, Kent says...
6:40pm Sat 10 Feb 07

I served with Jon in 265 (KCLY) Signal Sqn, he was a grand chap. My thoughts go to his family and finacee.
This only goes to prove, bring them home before more are taken.

Andrew Keeler, Lydd, Kent says...
7:16pm Sat 10 Feb 07

I met john when he was only 17 as a new recruit at 884 troop Brighton, as I was at Bexleyheath It normally takes quite a while to get to know people from the Brighton troop. I found John to be instantly likable, I also had the honour of being John’s room mate in Bosnia for 6 months. There was never a dull moment around John and advice was always forth coming, we spoke in depth about his future military plans and I am proud to have known him, he did follow his dream of becoming an officer and carried out his duty as only John could. I pass my deepest sympathies to his family and fiancée, one of the finest and most honourable people I have ever met and one who will be missed deeply, but never forgotten. Rest in peace dear friend.

Bede Wingfield, Littlehampton says...
7:56pm Sat 10 Feb 07

Having served with BC at 884 Troop Brighton, i will always remember his mature attitude and approach to any situation, a natural leader and a loyal friend to all. my deepest sympathies to the Bracho-cooke family

Steve Turner, Ashford, Kent says...
10:15pm Sat 10 Feb 07

What more can be said to back up the comments already made. This young man was a shining role model for any person in the UK and abroad. He overcame much to succeed and succeed he did. I am proud to be have known him (and his humour) from 265 Sqn Royal Signals and can only add that his departure from this world is a devasting loss for the world. He was truly one of the good guys. God bless you Jon and your family. Take note phoney Tony perhaps your son might like to take his place in this sham....not the right calibre I suspect.

Sean Reeve, Brighton says...
10:20pm Sat 10 Feb 07

John was a fantastic guy and a great friend. Always smiling and being positive through any situation - we could all learn a lot from him and his approach to life.

Filip B, brighton says...
12:03am Sun 11 Feb 07

I was in the same class as johnny through some of secondary school and although we were never close friends i remember him as a very kind friendly person who always had a smile on his face. My sypathies go out to all his family and anyone else was close to him. RIP

Kenny Green, Crawley says...
1:17am Sun 11 Feb 07

I knew Jon whilst serving at 884 Troop, Brighton. As a newby to the troop, Jon was one of the first to make me feel welcome. It was this ability and empaphay he showed to all who met him that will make Jon last in my memory and I am sure in the memories of all who also had the priviledge of knowing him.

Anna Moroney, Hove says...
1:24am Sun 11 Feb 07

I work with Tim, Jonathon's uncle. My husband and I were very saddened to hear the terrible news. Our sincere condolences and prayers to all the family.

Mark Butler, Greenford ,Middx says...
8:55am Sun 11 Feb 07

I knew BC from his service in the TA I remember him as a popular member of his squadron and regiment. please accept my condolences. It was a priviledge to know him and serve with him.

Elliot, Brighton says...
9:58am Sun 11 Feb 07

I am a good friend of Laura's and this is how I came to gain John as a friend, although anybody who knew him through Laura called him Johnny. I have only known him a couple of years, many memories are of sharing pizza takeaway and of drinking large amounts of beer and I shall never forget these times. I will miss him greatly and my sympathy goes to Laura, Patty, Jonathon, Lucy.x

Laura Tapson, Brighton says...
12:09pm Sun 11 Feb 07

I Knew Jon as a Teenager, we were from different school's but hung around together after school and at weekend's- with other friends aswell. We had lots of fun and i remember him as a lovely, funny guy. I was shocked to hear the sad news earlier in the week and my heart goes out to his family and fiance.We will always remember him and be very proud of him.

James Barlow, Bristol says...
12:13pm Sun 11 Feb 07

I served with John in Bosnia in 2002. We joined the Territorial Army (Royal Corp of Signals) at about the same time, and we were both on the same Recruits Course at Blandford Camp in Dorset. He was a great soldier, and good friend. I remember his sense of humour, his determination to suceed and the support he gave to me and other soldiers.

In particular, I recall our last fitness test at RTMC Chillwell in Nottingham before beginning deploying to Bosnia (in my case, via Wiltshire). John was my partner for the final strength assessment and gave me the benefit of the doubt on the last few rather strained press-ups to get me over the required standard. And on our last run, John and I raced each other in a rather foolish 100 yard sprint at the end of a mile and a half run. He beat me by 10 yards, but to be fair I was on the verge of throwing up.

My condolences to John's family and fiance. I am very sorry for your loss.

Ray Algar, Brighton says...
12:25pm Sun 11 Feb 07

I was saddened to read of Jonathan's death at such a young age.His determination to enter the army and pride in serving his country shone through it what I have read.

p, says...
6:24pm Sun 11 Feb 07

See also Book of Condolence - tributes or light a candle in www.gonetoosoon.co.uk

http://jonathan-carlos-bracho-cooke.gonetoosoon.co.uk/my_index.php

John S, Brighton says...
6:37pm Sun 11 Feb 07

I only knew Jonny from secondary school and college. He was easily one of the funniest people i have ever known. There was a lengthy gap between leaving college and bumping into him on a night out. It was like no time had past at all. He was as entertaining and as approachable as i had remembered. He was so excited about sandringham and full of stories. I remember thinking how totally unsuprised i was about how well he was doing. The determination he expressed at school was still strong. An amazing person truly.
Sadly missed.

enzo, says...
8:28pm Sun 11 Feb 07

John,
You will always be your parent's proud! Rest in peace.
Enzo y Patricia
Westdene, Brighton

Sean Tanner, Southwick says...
9:39pm Sun 11 Feb 07

I knew BC from 884 tp a good lad with the courage and bravery to serve his country in times of war.
It feels me with great sadness that the finest men and women pay the highest price for the failings of our government

my sypathies for his family and fiance for their great loss.

Ian Liscoe, Kent says...
10:31pm Sun 11 Feb 07

I have been a numbed since I heard the news on Tuesday. I was lucky enough to serve with Jon, both in 265 Sqn and 97 Sqn. He was so well liked by us all, and now we all have that gap in our lives where he has gone. It only seems like yesterday we were all getting those medals, who can ever guess what is to come.

Goodbye old buddy.

Daz Lane, Tonbridge Kent says...
11:27pm Sun 11 Feb 07

I was lucky to have known BC for a few years through the TA and he was one of the soundest guys i've ever met. And will be missed by all whose lives he touched.

Trudie, Brighton says...
1:12am Mon 12 Feb 07

My sincere condolences to family and fiancee of BC - an asset to 884 Singal Troop

Stephen Gagola, Hove says...
3:17am Mon 12 Feb 07

Jon was a very genuine person, which is really rare these days. I remember a lads holiday to newquay some years ago, he never stopped laughing or joking and really made it an amazing trip. The first to make a joke and the last to put anyone down.
I know he will be missed by everyone who was lucky enough to have known him.

Adrian Keeble, Alton, Hants says...
7:55am Mon 12 Feb 07

Jon was a very special person. He acheived so much in a life so tragically cut short. I was privileged enough to serve with him in the TA and in Bosnia. He was such a lovely person. He always had time and a smile for people. He would go out of his way to help his friends and never had a bad word to say. He didn't have a bad bone in his body. He was a shining example to us all. Farewell my friend. You will be very sadly missed.

Kenny Foxwell, Afghanistan says...
7:56am Mon 12 Feb 07

I have known B-C since he joined the TA at 17. It is plain to see from all the other comments what effect he had on all our lives. He was a truly professional soldier and a genuinely good person, doing what he loved and believed in. It is a privilege to have known him and worked with him. My heart goes out to his family and Fiancée.

Brett Harries, Bexleyheath says...
9:17am Mon 12 Feb 07

Words really can't describe how I felt when I first heard the news to how I'm feeling now. It really hasn't sunk in that Jon is no longer with us. I'm writing this message from work where a picture of Jon and I stand on exercise, and that seems like yesterday.

The last two days I have spent time and time again remembering all the good times I spent with Jon whilst in 265 Signal Squadron, like our R & R day down Canterbury which saw Jon and myself lost and drunk in Canterbury after missing the bus back to camp only to have a rigorous sports day the next day..

Though, no longer with us my memories of Jon will be with me forever

I for one am honoured and proud to have known Jon and to class him as a good friend, he shall be missed.

I would also like to pay my respects to both Jon's Parents, family and fiancée...

Rest in peace Jon.

Sam Alderson, Hove says...
9:53am Mon 12 Feb 07

I met Jonathan through my older brother Ashley, who was good friends Johnathan. I always remember the days when Jonathan and all the other lads came round our house to play cards and drink, and have BBQ's. Although i was younger than Jonathan he always invited me to join in what ever they were doing, and always made time to have chats with me. I was proud to have known Johnathan, he is a truely special guy, and will always have a place close to my heart. Thinking of the family through this most awful time.

Martyn Feather, Lancing says...
9:57am Mon 12 Feb 07

It was with deep sadness that I heard of the news of Jon's death.

Like many others who have left messages here, I also served with him in the Territorial Army. As a soldier he was always professional, as a person always genuine, and would always work hard and play hard.

My deepest sympathies go out to his family and his fiancee.

Farewell Jon, it was an honour to have known you.

Dave PRyke, Kent says...
12:56pm Mon 12 Feb 07

John Bracho-Cooke was a fine young man, a true soldier, a good man and a role modal to every young man in this country.

I am truly thankful to have known John ever since a young recruit of 17 joined 265 Signal Squadron, he was highly liked and popular.

My thoughts and prays to his family and Fiancée.

May he rest in piece, God bless his soul now and forever.

Hazel Fernandez, says...
1:27pm Mon 12 Feb 07

My whole family was deeply upset to hear the news of Jonathan's tragic death in Iraq. My children, Lisa & Steven attended both Cottesmore St Mary's and Cardinal Newman schools and knew Jonathan through school and through his mother, Patty and sister Lucy. He was a super lad and grew into fine young man of whom they are justly proud. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Jonathan snr, Patty and Lucy from Hazel, Carlos, Lisa & Steven Fernandez, Brighton

Mrs Julie Taylor, Cheshire says...
1:31pm Mon 12 Feb 07

I just want to say how deeply sorry I am for the loss of this beautiful life.
My son is in Jonathan's Battalion, he called to tell us the awful news on the Monday night. My heart breaks for the family, fiancee, friends and colleagues of Jonathan - but reading some of these tributes, you must be so proud of the love, high regard and respect that so many had for him.
May he rest in peace, and may God be your comfort and strength always.
Love
Julie
X X X

Suzy Knight, London says...
2:25pm Mon 12 Feb 07

I had the honour of serving with Jon in Bosnia with 97 Sqn as well as being in the same Regiment at home while he was in the TA. He will be sorely missed and remembered fondly as one of the nicest guys you would ever meet. As someone who also had a husband out in Iraq it was my greatest fear that he wouldn't come home either before or after the wedding; I can't imagine the pain of losing Jon as a fiance. My thoughts are with his family and fiancee. May he rest in peace.
Suzy Knight (nee Vere-Hodge)

Malcolm Cooper, Stourbridge says...
2:55pm Mon 12 Feb 07

I had the privilege and honour of serving with Jon in Bosnia I am deeply saddened by his passing and would like to pass my deepest sympathies to his family.This light has been extinguished and he will be sorely missed by all that knew him, but his memory will burn brightly in everyones heart.

Mactaggart family, hove says...
4:26pm Mon 12 Feb 07

our thoughts are with you at this time we have a family memeber who is currently serving in iraq

Graham Gaw, Kandahar says...
4:57pm Mon 12 Feb 07

When I saw his photo on the news I hoped it wasn't Jon, sadly it was. I had the honour of serving with him in Bosnia and thoroughly enjoyed the experience. He was an extremely bright, enthusiastic and capable soldier - I'm not at all surprised that he went on to become a commissioned officer in the Regular Army, a job I'm sure he shone at. It only seems like yesterday that we were at Blandford getting our medals. A sad loss of someone who will be sorely missed.

heath wilcox, Blandford says...
6:11pm Mon 12 Feb 07

A exceptional individual with compassion and humility, hard to find in somebody so young. He will be greatly missed

Charlie Blair, Brighton says...
7:39pm Mon 12 Feb 07

I got to know John through school friends in year 9 or 10. Since then he became one of my best mates. John was the most genuine guy in the world and never had a harsh word to say about anyone despite the banter we gave him! As many people have said John was a hugely determined which was evident even when we were younger when he often got stuck in goal during our summer football games, still always putting in 110% Since being in the army seeing John was limited to the odd days here and there but he was still always the man to organise a trip to the pub even if he was late on every single occasion! I never agreed with John on the whole army thing but it was what he loved and through this terrible tragedy people who didn't even know him have found out what an awesome guy he was. My heart goes out to his parents, Lucy and Laura as well as everyone of us who new and loved him. He will be truly missed. love Tone.

Kathy Janio, Hangleton says...
7:39pm Mon 12 Feb 07

I did not know Jonathan as he joined 884 Signal Troop quite a few years after I left. However, I would like to send my sincere sympathies to his family, fiancee and friends. Kathy

sian, brighton says...
7:56pm Mon 12 Feb 07

My heart is out for the family, it shouldnt of happened to you. This war should have never of started

Andrew Fox, RMA Sandhurst says...
10:05pm Mon 12 Feb 07

I was in Normandy Company, CC052 with BC. He was a great bloke, a genuine nice guy. What more can I say? Rest in peace.

Joseph Parente, Hove says...
11:58pm Mon 12 Feb 07

When I heard of this loss I could not believe it. These last few days I been thinking of all the times I been with him in the TA wishing I could see him again but can’t. I always remember him being the first to volunteer for any jobs good or bad. And when I went through some bad times he cared to ask how I was. He was always very keen and adventures person if he wasn’t doing something TA-ing he would be back packing around the world. In the socials we had you could always have a pleasant conversation with him and he never had a bad word against anyone. He always lived his life to the full. I glad that for part of my life I knew him.

tony, says...
1:02am Tue 13 Feb 07

An everlasting tribute website and online book of condolence has been
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GoneTooSoon.co.uk is a not for profit organisation which allows grieving
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DRC, says...
4:48am Tue 13 Feb 07

Almost ten years have passed since I left CNS, and yet memories are still a powerful source of imagery. The news of Jonathan's death has brought many past episodes back into focus. I have lived and attended university courses in Bristol, Southampton, and now Kent, meeting countless individuals of all colours and persuausions. But I can honestly say there are few characters I have met for whom the epithet, thoroughly, unmistakably decent, would apply. Jon and I were only briefly acquainted but it speaks volumes for the man that my impression of his considerable virtues is a lasting one.

Andrew Hewland, Shoreham by Sea West Suusex says...
8:20am Tue 13 Feb 07

I first meet Jon when he joined 884 Signal Troop back in 1999, in the six years that I knew him before he went to Sandhurst, I got to know a very kind and generous man who would had a great sense of humour. It has been both mine and my family’s pleasure to have known him and we will miss him greatly.

Jon, Via Con Dias

Andy Hewland

Paula, Brighton says...
10:28am Tue 13 Feb 07

Another loss. My heart goes out to his family and friends.

Rob Vincent, Hove says...
11:24am Tue 13 Feb 07

I knew Jon when he was with 884 Signal Troop. He was always someone you wanted in your detachment on exercise, knowing any job he was given would be done enthusiastically and well. When he left the Troop to go to Sandhurst we all felt the Troop had lost a good soldier but that the Regular Army had gained someone who would make a fine officer.

I was shocked and saddened to learn of his death and feel the that the World is poorer place for his loss.

Emily, Manchester says...
12:58pm Tue 13 Feb 07

When I heard the news I was deeply shocked and saddened. I was fortunate to have met BC through my boyfriend Alex whilst they were at RMAS together. Alex always thought so highly of BC and I know they shared many happy times as well as the stressful ones, and he was always the perfect gentleman. My deepest symathies are with his family and fiance, he was one of the good ones, x

Emily Graves, Hove, East Sussex says...
1:04pm Tue 13 Feb 07

I was at Cardinal Newman school with 'Little Jonny', and was lucky enough to be his friend throughout the 5 years. He was the kindest, funniest and most charming, genuine person, always, always smiling and so happy and enthusiastic about everything. Everyone adored him. I feel so so sad that his life has been taken away, but so proud to have had those precious school years with him. My memories are so fond and will remain immortal.

My most heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to his fiancee, family and countless friends xxx

Ashley Green, Bexlyheath says...
1:29pm Tue 13 Feb 07

I also served with Jon at 265 sig sdn, I was very upset when i first heard the very sad news; shared some good times together, Jon will be sadly missed, Greeny.

Richard Satnford, Worthing says...
4:45pm Tue 13 Feb 07

I met Jon when I joined 884 Signal Troop. He was always a very proffesional and caring soldier who would work hard and play alot harder.
I am deeply saddened at his death and my thoughts go out to his family and other friends at this sad time.

Sharon, Hove says...
5:18pm Tue 13 Feb 07

Dear Patti & family
Our thoughts are with you at this very sad time.
Sharon & Joseph Watsham (Dolphins)

Peter and Carolyn Goodman, Hurspierpoint says...
7:12pm Tue 13 Feb 07

We were devastated to see you all on the news last night and realized that it was Jonathan you have lost. We both send our deepest condolences. We have known Jonathan since he was born and you were and are one of our favourite patients. We cannot believe what has happened as he was the most delightful person both boy and man. He will be sorely missed by everyone he knew and by all of the country he was so proud to serve. We will be in touch personally. Our love always. Peter and Carolyn Goodman and all the staff at the dental surgery.

Eric&NormaWitherden, Portslade-by-Sea says...
11:06pm Tue 13 Feb 07

We are so sorry to learn the sad news about Jonathan and although we did not know him extend our sympathy to his parents and friends. Both of us together spent nearly 10 years in uniform during the last War so greatly admire what he and all our forces face in these troubled times all over the World.
Eric & Norma

Mr & Mrs Brookes, Hove says...
10:41am Wed 14 Feb 07

We did not know him, but being ex service ourselves , our heartfelt sympathy goes out to his family and fiancee.

Lauren Piper, Hove says...
2:17pm Wed 14 Feb 07

I attended Cardinal Newman and Jon was in my sisters year, she always had nice words to say about Jon and when ever I met him he was sweet polite and friendly. What a tragic loss, My thoughts go out to his family and friends at this sad time x

Martin Brown, Brighton & Upminster says...
3:45pm Wed 14 Feb 07

Was @ Cardinal Newman with Jonny up until we all went our separate wasys after studying Business together in Sixth Form.

My thoughts are with his family & fiancee.

Paul Dawson, Harlow says...
5:04pm Wed 14 Feb 07

On behalf of all at 882 Signal Troop, our condolences to Jonathon's family and friends.

Quite a number of us in both 882 Tp and 70 Sigs knew him and it was such a shock to find out that he had been killed in such tragic circumstances.

Our thoughts are with his family and in particular his fiancee.

will, brighton says...
5:13pm Wed 14 Feb 07

He was a kind funny great guy i cant believe this has happened to him. My thoughts go out to his loved ones.
Rest In Peace Jonny.

Colin Fulker, Brighton says...
11:44pm Wed 14 Feb 07

Jonny was a legend, I went to school and college with him and all the time i was there i never knew about his learning difficulties until reading the papers lately, just shows how well he got on with things. The best memories i have of him was on the lads holidays to newquay and on my 18th when he got the shock of his life to find my mum leading a conga through the mens toilets while he was using them... We went our seperate ways after college but he was someone i deeply regret losing contact with. Many lives will be empty without you mate... Rest in Peace.

Colleen, Vancouver,Canada says...
7:49am Thu 15 Feb 07

My sincere condolences to the family and fiancee of John.I did not have the pleasure of knowing this courageous young man,but you are all in my thoughts here in Canada.I am originally from Brighton (1975)and read the Argus paper via-e;mail
God Bless to you all.

Ken Jones, Hove says...
10:17am Thu 15 Feb 07

I worked with Jon at Sainsburys in West Hove in the Coffee Shop. I always found him to be a really funny, caring and reliable person and it was an absolute pleasure to have known him.The last time I saw jon was roughly 2 years ago when he came over to my flat for a few drinks and we had as always a great laugh. Its very hard to think that I'm never going to see him again and my prayers go out to his family in this really tragic time. I'm really going to miss you Jon 'Coffee Shop boys forever' Ken

Rob, Brighton says...
12:05pm Thu 15 Feb 07

I met Jon after he got together with my friend Laura. He was immediately friendly and fitted in with everyone. He made a massive effort to get to know us and rapidly became a good friend. My best memories of him are sitting in our back garden chatting, drinking and juggling firelighters. A skill that I have yet to master. My thoughts go out to Laura, Lucy, Paty and Jonathan. He will be sorely missed.

Kayte, Colchester says...
12:58pm Thu 15 Feb 07

I also had the pleasure of knowing Jonny through his fiance laura. Although we only met on a few occasions, it was obvious what a lovely guy he was. I have never met a couple so meant for each other as them. Jonny's love and commitment to laura was immeasurable. My thoughts are with Laura and his family. xx

Kay Mellor, Hove says...
1:34pm Thu 15 Feb 07

I knew John for two and a half years when I was in 884 Signal Troop. He was part of the very heart of the troop, and he absolutely shone as a soldier.

He was one of those brilliant, rare people who seem to live the whole of their life like an adventure. In the TA I saw him come in from the rain and cold at two in the morning, and - unlike most people who are at their worst in those sort of conditions, - John's lovely personality was still sparkling through, with him finding ways to keep everyone else's spirits up.

I last bumped into him at a wedding fair in Brighton - he was with Laura and he was so obviously looking forward to their marriage. He was someone who really seemed to value other people's friendship and company, and he got on with everybody; whether they were a soldier or officer, man or woman.

John was one of the people who came to visit me in hospital when I was hit by a car that ended my TA career. I can't think of many young lads in their early twenties who would bother to go and visit a colleague in hospital, and to me it just confirmed what a kind, caring person he was.

Since I heard of his death last week I've been remembering so many things about him. All of my memories of him are happy ones, which makes makes it even harder to believe that he's gone.

John really was special, and like everyone else I feel privileged to have known him. I promise that I will always remember him.

matthew johnson, Brighton says...
5:04pm Thu 15 Feb 07

I’ve know Jon since i was about 12 or 13 and what can i say he is the nicest bloke you will ever be lucky enough to meet he would have done anything for anyone he always looked out for me, even though we lost touch a few years ago when ever we did see each other it would be endless laughs and we would talk about all the stuff me him and mark used to get up. It has been both mine and my family’s pleasure to have known him and im going to miss him greatly. The memories of the time we did spend together ill never forget, my heart goes out to Patty Jonathan Lucy Laura and all his family and friends.
Matt

Eliseo Ocampo, Mexico says...
6:11pm Thu 15 Feb 07

For his family in Mexico, Jonathan was a very special person. Of course we know that he was an outstanding officer, but we also remind him as a very sensitive and warm cousin and nephew. And it is perfectly understandable: his parents and sister are wonderful too. The news about his death were terrible for us, because in spite of the long distance between Mexico and England, we always felt him very close to our hearts. He was an example for us in all aspects, but specially as human being, always well disposed and with a big smile on his face.

We want to say that most of all we feel very proud of Jonathan, and now that he is not between us, will live in our hearts and will be a very encouraging inspiration.

Thanks for all Dear Jonathan!



Michael Page, Brighton says...
7:55pm Thu 15 Feb 07

I attended Cardinal Newman School and Sixth Form Centre with Jonny and of all the people i met through those years at school, no one stuck out like Jonny did. A great human being who always had time to listen, talk and just be there for his friends. Will never forget his caring, out-going and loveable personality who would light up even the darkest of rooms with his cheeky funny humour.
One memory of Jonny was on a lads holiday in Newquay at 3am outside a club trying to locate where he was, it didnt take long to find him... arms crossed, cigerette in mouth stood between two police officers posing for a photo, brilliant.
What a tragic loss, my thoughts and prayers are with his family, fiancée and friends.

Louise, brighton says...
8:27pm Thu 15 Feb 07

I went to cardinal newman with jonathan.i'm really sorry for the sad lost of jonathan.my heart goes out to the his fiance,family and friends.I will always be thinking of you.

Lyn & Ray Henderson & family, Hove, East Sussex says...
9:09pm Thu 15 Feb 07

Unfortunately we did not have the pleasure of meeting Jonathan Jnr. Lyn used to work with Jon Senior many years ago at Lloyds Bank E & T Dept, Brighton. You must be so very proud of your son. Please accept our condolences Jon, Patty, Lucy & Laura our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family - God Bless

Dan, brighton says...
9:45pm Thu 15 Feb 07

Sorry to hear of the tragic loss - He was a very brave man.

My heart goes out to his friends and family. Dan

netty, brighton says...
10:10pm Thu 15 Feb 07

no words could ever ease this familys loss it may only help a little to know how sorry we are they have to go through all this pain

Kerry Dolan, Hove says...
11:15pm Thu 15 Feb 07

I was lucky enough to be good friends with Jon a few years ago and have such great memories of that time. He was always happy, a joy to be around and a great friend who provided laughter and a shoulder to cry on. He will be sadly missed but fondly remembered always. My love and thoughts are with his family, fiance and friends. Kerry

Familia Pacheco, Mexico says...
12:35am Fri 16 Feb 07

We would like to send our condolences to the Bracho-Cooke Family, Jonathan, Paty and Lucy, for their recently lose. We had the chance to know him every time he came to Mexico and we have to say he was a wonderful kid. We never met Laura but also our condolences for her.
If we can help in any way, do not doubt in asking, remember we consider you family as well.
Andrea, Daniel and Gaby

Jimmy McGillicuddy, Brighton says...
1:00am Fri 16 Feb 07

Only got to know John in recent years.. met him 4-5 times, but felt during/through the conversations I had with him, especially the last time we met, that he was developing into another good mate, we spent some funny nights together. Originally introduced through mutual close mates (charlie etc..), but always got updates on his progress...awful news to hear what happened. I spent part of a night with his close mates/family v.recently and was overwhelming to see the support and togetherness of everyone...a great tribute to the guy and the type of person he attracted - my deepest sympathies to the family and his fiancé. He was a top man.

bill thomson, brighton says...
5:13am Fri 16 Feb 07

lets not remember jon as the 100th soldier but as the dedicated and fun loving person we all new. thomo (ex 884)

Sharon Savarese, Eltham, London says...
10:53am Fri 16 Feb 07

I knew Jon BC through the TA. I know that his death has hit everyone that knew him extremely hard. It is hard to comprehend how someone so young, with such a promising future ahead of him, both in the Army and with his fiance Laura, can be taken in such a senseless way. My thoughts are with his family and also with Laura. I hope you can find the strength to get through this. Jon was a great guy. His death will leave a huge void in many people's lives.

chrissie, heathfield, e. sussex says...
11:45am Fri 16 Feb 07

Another tragic waste of a young life! I cannot know what it is like to lose a son, and can only imagine. The mere thought of losing one of my two boys fills me with fear. I can only offer my deepest sympathy to Jonathon's family and friends and hope & pray the conflict is soon brought to an end and our countrymen & women can return home where they belong. We are all very proud of our troops and what they endure for the benefit of others. xx

Alison, Ireland says...
11:46am Fri 16 Feb 07

Sorry to hear anything person lost in the war of Europe, my prayers & thoughts are with the family.

GOD BLESS

David Johnson, Hove says...
12:53pm Fri 16 Feb 07

Unfortunately I did not know Jonathan but my thoughts go out to his parents and girlfriend. A young life lost for no reason. RIP

Simon Palmer, Bexleyheath says...
1:45pm Fri 16 Feb 07

My loss is not to have known Jonathan, but I am aware, through conversations and contacts with many who did, what a very special person he was.
No-one I have spoken to has anything but praise and kind remarks to make about Jonathan, which leads me to believe he was one of those rare individuals that genuinely cared about others. Whether as friends, colleagues or subordinates and for whom going the extra mile was second nature. He was clearly a man of good humour, courage, compassion and commitment; qualities that would ideally suit him to life as an Army Officer. That his life should be so tragically cut short is a travesty and, on behalf of all serving members of Jon’s former squadron, I extend my heartfelt and sincere condolences to his family and fiancé.

Officer Commanding 265 (KCLY) Sp Sqn (Sharpshooters)

Patrick & Louise Kneath, Telscome Cliffs says...
3:04pm Fri 16 Feb 07

We never knew your son
Our love and condolences to you. We hope the following poem helps......

What is dying?

A ship sails and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon, and someone says, "she is gone".

Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all; she is just as large as when I saw her...

The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me, not in her, and just at the moment when someone says "she is gone", there are others who are watching her coming, and other voices take up a glad shout, "there she comes!"...

and that is dying.

Bishop Brent



Carlos and Julie Perez Avila, San Salvador, El Salvador says...
4:10pm Fri 16 Feb 07

We have knew Jonathan and all his family. From this far away land we remeber with fond memories his party conmemorating his passing out. Jonathan the kind young lad had grown up and was joining his beloved army. He worked extremely hard to get there and was very proud of his achievements. So where Patty, Jonathan sr and Lucy. We were devastated by the news are heartfelt condolences. We are so sorry we can not be there with you in this difficult times.

Carlos and Julie


mark ashley, brighton says...
6:53pm Fri 16 Feb 07

words cannot express what im feeling at the moment, i have lost an amazing part of my life. i will always remember jon as the fun loving person he was, he is greatly missed

Clare Park, Portslade says...
10:15am Sat 17 Feb 07

I went to Cardinal Newman secondary school and sixth form college with Jon. I was so sorry to read of the sad news in the paper. 'Little Jonny' as we knew him was such a lovely person. He was genuine, happy and very sociable. I recently found our year 11 school photo with everyone in it and made me realise how precious life can be. I now regret losing contact with him after college, and so when I heard that he had gone to Sandhurst, well what an achievement and such a proud moment for his family im sure. I will always remember Jon, he was in some of my classes at school and always made us laugh!
It is evident that everyone I have spoken to knew Jon in some way or another, through school or working with. This has touched all of us greatly and he will be sadly missed!

My thoughts and prayers go out to his family, fiance, friends and all who knew him. May he rest in peace. X

Geoff Marshall, Brighton says...
7:42pm Sat 17 Feb 07

How tragic that such a young life with such a promising future should be wasted in this way. I met him only once but I know his parents well and my prayers are with them and his fiancee at this very sad time.

Ella and Jenny, Brighton says...
4:54am Sun 18 Feb 07

Just wanted to say we didn't know Jon that well but every time we saw him he was always lovely and smiley. We weren't really suppose to talk to Ella's brothers friends but Jon would always make us feel welcome. Was very sad to hear for your loss and reading all this messages you can see how loved he was and meant to everyone. My thoughts are with his family and friends xxx

jess, brighton says...
7:09pm Sun 18 Feb 07

even though i only only met johnny once, my boyfriend adam boon went to school with him at cardial newman,and on behalf of both of us want to express our deepest sympathey goes out to everyone that knew him .rest in peace

joanne courtney, portslade says...
7:39pm Sun 18 Feb 07

Dear patti,
I am so sorry to hear the terrible news about jonathan. Such a shock to hear especially after i only recently met up with you at the falmer health club and caught up on so much of our past. i will never forget Jonathan as the smiley faced boy i knew him when we were neighbours and all my thoughts go out to you and family during this terrible time x

Geoff and Dorothy Chilton and on behalf of Alex Chilton, Norfolk says...
9:10pm Sun 18 Feb 07

Our thoughts are with you and we send our love to you all. We knew your son as BC, for that is what our son, Alex, called him. They joined RMA Sandhurst together in 24 Normandy Platoon, were next to each other in the lines and supported each other in so many ways over that year.
On 5th February Alex, also in Basra, telephoned us to tell us of the sad news. He and Emily knew how much BC delighted in anticipating his wedding to Laura in August, they really looked forward to seeing them there and valued the prospect of a lifetime of friendship afterwards.
BC was a fine soldier, a true friend and a loving son and fiance. In times to come we hope that you can see his life as, although far too short, one in which he was loving, much loved and following his dream.

Corrina, Brighton says...
11:00pm Sun 18 Feb 07

I have known Jon for years, better known to school friends as 'Little Johnny', he can only be described as a really lovely guy....Not only was he my friend from school, but a very close friend of my boy friend. Brighton, so big but yet so small!! So over the past years we all became a close group of friends.

Always happy and up for a laugh, I have been fortunate enough to enjoy many a good night out with him and our friends… He often joined me at the bar for a toast to Newman as we chuckled about ‘old times’… Not shy with his thoughts, he was the first to tell me to drink up, or put it down if that be the case. In fact on my birthday, Sambuca became our best friend and as Laura tells me it was not only me that needed to go home shortly after that…

He was adored by all that knew him and will be sorely missed… Jon was a brilliant inspirational man and he will be in our hearts forever…

………To Jon!!

Kirstie Elliott, Brighton says...
8:23am Mon 19 Feb 07

Fun and sillyness shared when kids, childlike memories coloured with happiness and fun!! All my love to the family and laura. All old friends will remember him with a smile.

love Kirstie x x

Laura, Hove says...
2:19pm Mon 19 Feb 07

I would like to say how sorry i am to hear of this tragic event and my thoughts go out to the whole family.

Leo, Brighton says...
6:48pm Mon 19 Feb 07

I attended Newman with Jonny and can think of no one more friendly. I had not seen Jon for sometime so it was good to hear that he had achieved some of his dreams. I hope his family and fiancé can take some comfort in the messages left here. They are no more than he deserves. I am truly glad to have known such a kind and honest person. He will live on in my thoughts.

Karen Hall, Lewes says...
8:22pm Mon 19 Feb 07

My son was at Sandhurst with BC, he often gave John a lift home on leave week-ends.
I can’t think of the words to write to let you how sorry I am for your loss and how I hope that as time goes by the strength of your memories will help to ease your pain.

god bless

Amie Rand, Hove says...
9:08pm Mon 19 Feb 07

I'm so sorry to hear about the tragic death of Jon. My deepest sympathy goes out to Jons family, fiance and friends. I enjoyed many fun times with him and the boys during our late teenage years. Those memories will never fade.
Amie x

Graham Ellis, Manchester says...
9:43pm Mon 19 Feb 07

I met Jon in July 2003 in Los Angeles. I was travelling with my mate and Jon was travelling with his mate Matt. The four of us immediately clicked and we decided to continue on together.
Myself and Jon exchanged many stories and he was always full of passion and enthusiasm.
My ever lasting memories of Jon are that he was real a character, with a good sense of humour.
Rest in peace mate.

david keenan-hall, 241-083 says...
12:06am Tue 20 Feb 07

When one of us falls, the rest of us stumble...

Tony Woods, Hove says...
9:37am Tue 20 Feb 07

Deeply moved by the loss of a brave young local man who had everything to live for. My thoughts are with his fiance and his family. Rest in peace. May time heal the pain.

Ted Bowden, Hove says...
9:43am Tue 20 Feb 07

Rest in peace.

Stephen Owen, St Albans says...
11:15am Tue 20 Feb 07

I met Jon and his mate Matt in LA in 2003 and we spent a couple of weeks travelling round California together. He was a great guy and he will be missed...

JaneC, Hove says...
1:57pm Tue 20 Feb 07

Another wasted young life. Please accept my sincere sorrow for your grief at this time- your son deserved better

Lianne, Portslade says...
7:34pm Tue 20 Feb 07

I did not know him personally, but if he was like his sister, he always put others first.
All our thoughts and prays are with those who loved him.

Kev Hancock, brighton says...
9:03pm Tue 20 Feb 07

Jon was always an eager contributor to life at 884 Troop and it was a great pleasure to have known and served with him. He achieved great things and I know he will always be in the memories of those whose lives he touched.

Rest in Peace Jon

Annette Short, Bristol says...
10:56pm Tue 20 Feb 07

Dear Jon & Patti,
I was deeply upset to hear the news of your son's death. You must be devastated. I pray that you find consolation in happy memories and from each other.
Love from Annette xx (nee Fears, ex Lloyds E&T)

Andrew, says...
1:52am Wed 21 Feb 07

History may be unkind to those who served in the war against Iraq. An analysis of time however must never detract from Jon's sacrifice.

Jon's actions hold a mirror to the apathetic and apolitical masses; he was the very definition of courage, duty and honour.

Goodbye mate,

A.

Paul Halsall, Burnley says...
9:28am Wed 21 Feb 07

I was with John in 24 platoon and he was a good friend.

His passing is a sore loss to everyone but he got the send off he deserved yesterday.

My thoughts are with his family and Laura.
Paul

Melissa Montgomery, Hove says...
9:31am Wed 21 Feb 07

Although I did not know Jon personally, I recognise his friendly face as I also went to Cottesmore & Cardinal Newman but was a few years above him. My heart goes out to his family & fiancee, you must be so very proud of him.

Diane, California USA says...
10:02am Wed 21 Feb 07

Everytime I see another flag draped coffin I feel another peice of humanity has been ripped from the heart of the world. After reading the many posts from those who knew this wonderful young man I just had to express my deepest, heart-felt sympathy for not only his family but for all those who were so privileged to have known him. I pray for all the troops not just for those from my country. I don't support Bush. Never have and never will. He is a shameful mark on our nation's good name.

Susan Rowland, HOVE says...
11:07am Wed 21 Feb 07

My words will never convey how sad I feel for Patti, Jonathan, and all the family. I was priviledged to attend Jonathan's funeral yesterday. I hope all the support and professionalism of the soldiers and police, and all your friends will get you through this sad time. Love Suzi and all the family.

alf blodwell, ashton-u-lyne says...
11:17am Wed 21 Feb 07

attended yesterdays funeral with 7 other standard bearers from lancashire as part of the duke of lancasters associations it was an honour to be there and i would like to thank the family on behalf of us all for your kind words in such a testing time thank you

Terry, Brighton says...
11:39am Wed 21 Feb 07

I didn't know Jon, but I know his sister Lucy, who is one of the nicest people I have ever met. I've heard he was the same, a great bloke. Thoughts and prayers for you all.

gabriella parrish, brighton says...
1:04pm Wed 21 Feb 07

so sorry for the loss i only met him breifly and what a pleasure that was thinking of all of you at this time and love to lucy x

Anna Nabarro, Hove says...
1:49pm Wed 21 Feb 07

My thoughts are with Jons family, fiance and friends. He will be greatly missed. I was fortunate enough to enjoy nights out with Jon, his sister Lucy and friends. Those memories will never be forgotten xx

Hayley Barber, Portslade says...
5:16pm Wed 21 Feb 07

All our thoughts and prayers are with Patty,Jonathon,and Lucy,his fiance and family & friends at this devastating time.
xx

mmf, Hove says...
8:37pm Wed 21 Feb 07

So sorry for the loss of this fine young man. I pray that his family and young fiancee will find comfort in everybody's good wishes

Lucy Keith, Hove says...
9:17pm Wed 21 Feb 07

Although I didnt go to school with jon we became friends when we were about 14-15 we spent the summer time down the beach such a nice person and a shame we lost contact. It is such an awful thing to happen to such a nice person. My love goes out to everyone that this has touched, and my thoughts are with you all xx

nat, rmas says...
9:20pm Wed 21 Feb 07

I met jon only a few times, but just as i wish all the officer cadets when they leave, that i hope they all remain safe throughout their army careers, i was very sad to hear of jon's death.....too good for this life!!
i send my love to his family.....x
RIP JON
love
nat x

Sam Liddle, Chelmsford says...
10:29pm Wed 21 Feb 07

It was with great sadness that I saw B-C's coffin on the front of The Guardian today. I first met BC in the Czech republic in 2003 serving in the same platoon. He immediately made a good impression and it was obvious he would achieve his ambition of gaining a commission. A great loss and will be sadly missed.
My thoughts go to his family and fiancee.

Kate, San Francisco, CA USA says...
11:37pm Wed 21 Feb 07

Blessings to all affected by the loss of this beautiful man. My heart goes out to you.

Daniel Eaton, Brighton says...
1:03am Thu 22 Feb 07

I knew Jonathan when we were kids and we went to the same schools. I was so sad when I found out about Jonny's passing. My son Charlie was born a few days earlier. I really feel for Jonathan sr and Patty as they have lost their son. Lucy, you and Jonathan gave my brothers Simon and Michael and I such happy and funny memories when were kids and we only have good memories of him. Shame we never got to catch up properly with him as adults. He achieved so much given that the odds were against him in many ways. He's an inspiration to us all and will never be forgotten.

Maru Buenrostro, México, D.F. says...
5:50am Thu 22 Feb 07

Familia Bracho Cooke, todo nuestro cariño y apoyo para ustedes, Paty, todo nuestro cariño va hasta allá y Lucy, te recordamos con mucho cariño y los acompañamos en estos momentos tan difíciles.

Luke Kinsey, brighton says...
3:26pm Thu 22 Feb 07

I knew John from quite a while back he was a great kiddy always up for a laugh and always had time for people my thoughts are with his family.

Debbie "Squigley", Braintree Essex says...
5:52pm Thu 22 Feb 07

I met Jon on one of the first TA weekends I went on, he nicknamed me Squigley which stuck for the whole two years that I spent in TA, he was fun and a laugh to be around, when I got the call to say he had been killed I was totally shocked and didn't believe it until I saw it in the paper the following day, I couldn't bring myself to go to the funeral, i'll remember Jon through all the laughs and good times we had on TA weekends and in Czech republic, I left TA around the same time Jon joined Sandhurst as I was starting a new career too, the last time I heard from him was Christmas via email wishing everyone a good one from Iraq.
My heartfelt condolances to all of Jons family and his fiance, he will be sadly missed.

Roy Hughes, Preston,Lancashire says...
8:44pm Thu 22 Feb 07

Members of The Kings and Manchester Regiments Association(Preston)Branch express our deepest sympathy and condolonces on the death of this young officer,the loss of any Kingsman is felt throughout the Regimental Family.

C Chidsey, Lewes says...
8:47pm Thu 22 Feb 07

My grandson was at Sandhurst with Jonathan. My heart goes out to parents, family and fiancee. He was a fine young man.

Mollie-Anne, Brighton says...
9:07pm Thu 22 Feb 07

I did not know your son, but I am sad to hear of his death. My deepest wishes on your loss, I always support our Armed Forces wherever they serve, Im just so sorry that he paid the ultimate price.
My deepest sympathies to your family

Tika Hunt-Uribe, Brighton says...
10:29am Fri 23 Feb 07

Dear Jonathan, Pati, Lucy & Laura: I see your pain but I see more..the love you have for Jonathan Carlos. It is that love, which is going to be vital to all of you to help him to rest and be with you always. It is also that love, which will transform your lifes in this world without him physically but always with him in spirit. I love you all, Tika

Dr. Graham Blaker, Beaconsfield says...
3:52pm Fri 23 Feb 07

Dear Pati and Jonathan, Juliet and I send our condolences to you both on the sad loss of your son. He was a very brave young man and a great credit to you both. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time

Helen Race, Hove says...
6:06pm Fri 23 Feb 07

We worked together and would go in togther in the mornings-I know it sounds cliche but he really did brighten those mornings for me... He was such a good, decent guy in a way that is nearly rare these days and on top of that he was just really fun to be with. My thoughts are with his family and fiancee. X

James Edmonds, Brighton says...
7:08pm Fri 23 Feb 07

My Mum is good friends with Jonathan's Mum, I never met him, but i admire him and every soilder who has served in Iraq. Only the loss of someone special could have such an impact on a community. Words are a bit pointless really, and this sort of news puts life into perspective. My thoughts are with his family and fiance. x

Dawn Wharton, Woodingdean says...
9:47am Sun 25 Feb 07

To the family of Jonathan Carlos.
I am deeply sad for your great loss. I only knew Jonathan as a small boy, almost the same age as my son. May he rest in peace, with God's blessing, and God's blessing and comfort to you all.

Paul York, New Eltham says...
3:14pm Sun 25 Feb 07

I knew Jon from the TA, and can only say what a great guy he was, and will be sadly missed, my deepest sympathies to his fiancée, family and friends

Angie & Jo Manser, Hove says...
5:55pm Sun 25 Feb 07

Johnathon really is the loveliest guy we have ever met, and still in complete shock that he has gone. We have known johnathon for just 4 years, and are his neighbours. Johnathon was one of the first persons to come and introduce himself, and gave a cheeky low down of the close. we're going to miss seing him so much (having his sneaky ****! lol!). He always had time and was so friendly, a real credit to his family, we are very proud of having known him. all our love to Johnathon, patti, Lucy and Laura x

Angie & Jo Manser, Hove says...
5:58pm Sun 25 Feb 07

im sorry for stars, it is meant to read sneaky ciggarette, but used a shorter word xxx

Familia Hoyo Ulloa, Mexico says...
9:26pm Tue 27 Feb 07

Estamos con ustedes en esta perdida tan terrible. Pedimos a Dios consuelo y resignacion para sus corazones. Los recordamos en cada una de nuestras oraciones y les mandamos todo nuestro amor.

Janey, Brighton & Hove says...
7:40pm Wed 28 Feb 07

BC was truly one of the good guys. May he rest in peace, God bless his soul now and forever, bless you Jon and your family.
THE TWENTY-THIRD PSALM
The Lord is my shepard, I shall not want.
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures:
He leadeth me besides the still waters.
He restoreth my soul: He leadeth me in the
paths of righteousness for His name's sake.
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the
shadow of death, I will fear no evil:
for Thou art with me;
thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the
presence of mine enemies:
thou anointest my head with oil:
my cup runneth over.
Surley goodness and mercy shall follow
me all the days of my life:
and
I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever

Adrian Wellock, Shanklin, Isle of Wight says...
10:06pm Sat 3 Mar 07

I was lucky enough to be brought up with Jonathan from Cottismore up through to Newman and onwards and have shared many found times together i will cherish forever. When school was finished or the weekend was here we would put on our roller blades and be off, racing around Blatchington Mill school grounds, Hove park or where ever it took us. The hours i spent chasing john or Mark Ashley on their roller boots playing tag seemed endless, there were always much faster than myself.
Off on camp, john would flourish, he was always one to get involved and get stuck in regardless of the task. We would build the largest fires and on group camps other troops used to come over in panic and try to put them out, I loved our scouting as it was very laid back, it allowed us lads to be real lads and do the stuff we enjoy.

Team work was what scouting was about, John completed the Overland Hike in Sussex along with my brother and a two others, they hiked for two days having a laugh along the way, carrying their kit and sleeping equipment and finished in a good place with the other troops in the district.

When we had to do cooking at scouts everyone was so pleased when john showed us how to make Taco’s one evening. The usual pancakes and raisin bread biscuits used to turn out like cement and usually end up getting thrown around the room as it stuck to any surface it hit. After john gave us the recipe for Taco’s they where the first thing i ate at scouts when we cooked and there wasn’t a piece of mixture left at the end of the evening. Taco’s saved our cooking evening as before then it just was a food fight as we where cooking such foul food.

John, your a star, a role model and a real true great person. I’m proud to of known you and day after day i walk on with the happy memories i hold in my heart. To the men and women you served with and to all our troops and their family’s away from home, our love is always with you. When i look back and think of a memory it always makes me smile. My heart is with your family and your fiancé always.

Adrian Wellock

Jeannette, says...
2:32am Fri 9 Mar 07

I'm so very sorry, my deepest sympathies go to Jon's family

Richard Delacour, Hove says...
9:48am Fri 9 Mar 07

Dear Patti, Jonathan, Lucy & Laura,

It is never easy to find the right words to say at such a sad time like this. We never knew Jonathan but we have spent some time reading the tributes & kinds words that have been written in many publications and web sites.

From those it is quite clear that he was a remarkable man and not only much loved as a Son, Brother and Fiancée by you but also by many friends and colleagues who had the honour and privilege to know him.

He overcame obstacles to achieve his dream of not only joining the Amy but also making it a successful career. He was obviously a popular and caring man as those sentiments shine out of all the comments made about his life.

There is a cenotaph remembering the fallen in world conflicts in a Northern town which bears the inscription, “Because principles do not apply themselves”. We can only echo that statement in that it needs courageous men and women to stand up and fight for the honourable and moral principles and values that they truly believe in.

We in the free world owe Jonathan a huge debt of gratitude as he set about trying to achieve for others the same freedoms, that we all too often take for granted and bring about democracy, peace and stability in a violent and hostile environment. He has made the ultimate sacrifice and for that, underneath your sadness, you should feel incredibly proud.

It goes without saying that he will be desperately missed but I know that he will live on in the hearts and minds of those that knew and loved him.

Thinking of you all at this time.

Respectfully yours

Richard, Emma, Bethany & Francesca
The Delacour Family

sam, cheltenham says...
6:11am Thu 15 Mar 07

words are pointless at times like these as no-one knows what to say, how to say it, and when to. . everyone is truly sadenned by the tremendous loss but i thought i should share what i received on a card not long ago. you may have heard it but it has helped me a lot, and i hope it will help you. 'try not to cry because he died, smile because he lived.'

Robin Bishop, Bristol, UK says...
1:40pm Tue 15 May 07

I'm another of 97 signal squadron who served with John in Bosnia, 2001-2. Lovely friendly guy. Such a shame that he is gone. I was really shocked when I discovered he had been killed. I will remember him fondly and wish his family well through this difficult time.

Gill and Gerald Middleton, bramber, west sussex says...
3:29pm Fri 8 Jun 07

We've only just heard about the death of Jon having moved out of the Hove area in 2004. Jon was a great friend of our daughter Charlotte and was great fun at her 18th birthday party! What a lovely guy and what a tragic loss for all his family and friends. We are proud to be numbered amongst the people whose lives he touched.

Charlotte Middleton, says...
7:22pm Fri 8 Jun 07

Just found out today about Jon. Cannot believe it. He was such a chatty wonderful guy so full of life and ambition. I so am proud of his achievements knowing how much he wanted to join the army. His friendship filled my teenage years with joy. My thoughs are with jons family. Jon i will always remember you with affection.

Olivia Garner / Crane, Worthing says...
11:06pm Fri 8 Jun 07

I to only recently found about john. I used to live around the corner from him. and grew up with him with many other friends. Such as Charlotte middleton Matt Johnson, and many many others. Many of which I can already see have written nothing but warmth and joy about him. And i still have many memorys of us growing up. John was a very special person and i to am very proud to hear of his achievements. My heart goes out to his family and his fiancee. He really was a very special person and i will never forget him.

Mat, Bton says...
5:15am Fri 29 Jun 07

Jon,
Time I wrote.
I have missed you like hell!!! You are still my best man and best mate and will remain so for ever. You are irreplaceable - a true gent and respected officer. You and your family are in my prayers.
Take care brother,
Mat.

Andy and Ryan, Crathes says...
8:11am Tue 5 Feb 08

I can't believe it is a year ago today, Jonathan was killed.So many times when he was so very missed; his birthday, his wedding day, and Christmas, to name just a few. He will always be missed and always remembered.
Aunty Andy ****

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