I have met a great new guy in Eastbourne and he wants me to move in with him and eventually get married.
But there's one problem. Whenever we make love, he is completely unable to reach orgasm inside me, even if we go on for three or four hours! He says he has been like that all his life. Why?
This poor bloke is suffering from a well-known male condition called "retarded ejaculation" (RE) or "delayed ejaculation" (DE). It is usually due to deep-seated inhibitions about climaxing in the vagina. You can find out a lot about it on the internet, by Googling the above words. Unfortunately, it isn't easy to treat. Your guy's best hope is longterm psychotherapy. If he's not willing to do this, then conceiving children would be very difficult.
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