Four boys in one family are given ASBOs (The Argus, January 9).

A neighbour says the boys can seem a bit threatening "but that's the same for any boys of that age".

Why do we allow anyone to make such a pathetic excuse for unacceptable behaviour?

The overwhelming majority of teenage boys and girls

I have taught in comprehensives in London and Brighton have been perfectly reasonable and decent people.

There are some who are difficult and need determined, decisive and rigorous action taken against them but most need little more than firmness and consistency.

Why blame boys in general for this antisocial behaviour, when the problem is much more likely to be totally inadequate parenting?

Most parents manage to bring up teenagers who are reasonable, friendly, sensible and polite.

How do most of us manage it? It's called discipline and it needs to be loving and firm.

The word "no" needs to be used as often as necessary and sanctions need to be applied. They don't need to be barbaric, just firmly, consistently and lovingly applied.

It's not always easy but who said being a parent was?

If you don't want the stresses and strains of taking young people through the difficulties and temptations of life in the 21st Century, having children is not compulsory.

-Dr S Newton, Peacehaven