I have been married to my husband for 14 years.
To my astonishment, he has just suggested he would like to see me making love with other men. I am stunned by this. Do you think he's ill, or what?
No, I don't. Unfortunately, it's a fact quite a few guys are turned on by the thought of watching their wives having sex with other people. Men often get these ideas when they've been married quite a long time or when the marriage is actually drifting into trouble. My advice is: do not agree. And ask your man to go to Relate (01273 697997) with you for counselling.
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