My ex was a good dad until he went to Singapore. I can count on one hand the amount of times he has contacted my two children in the past nine months, either by email or phone.

I, too, had trouble with my son after the split. Thankfully, he has come through it now.

My ex is the loser. At the end of the day, he doesn't know his children any more and, although I have been through hell at times, the good times far outweigh the bad.

He has missed so many funny moments. The children are well adjusted now and seem happy enough, no thanks to their father.

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