Stuck in a rut, searching for somewhere to belong, or simply in need of a confidence boost? Then there’s no better time to hit the streets of Manhattan alone.

For a first-timer it’s a good idea to plan ahead and pay for peace of mind. Months earlier I had created a packed itinerary to get the most from my trip, although I feared I would bottle out when it came to the crunch. But, soaking up the atmosphere from the safety of the transfer car, I couldn’t wait to become part of the buzzing city.

Having seen the illuminated Empire State Building from the roof terrace of Hotel Metro, I rushed out to pay $20 and join the queue to see New York City by night from the 86th floor.

Apart from feeling self- conscious when my turn came to pose for a souvenir photo, no one seemed to notice I was alone. And, for the remainder of the trip, I was having far too much fun to care.

Once out on the observation deck, put the camera away for a moment and take in the twinkling, inspiring vista before you. The moment I saw this view, I was certain I would not waste a second of my short time here.

Instead of being exhausted by the transatlantic journey, I wasn’t yet ready for my first night to end and, with a hunger for more bright lights, I made my way to Times Square. For those exploring the city alone at night, the abundance of NYPD officers will put your mind at ease.

When out and about in Manhattan, be sure to look down as well as up because the steam rising from the grates at the roadside – just like you’ve seen in the movies – will drive it home that you’ve finally made it to the Big Apple. The same goes for the actual yellow cabs.

Ready for action early next morning, I fell comfortably into step alongside the rushing New Yorkers. However, the ultimate way to get your bearings is to take a Liberty Helicopter Tour, followed by a 90-minute NY Waterways cruise. I was able to book both excursions in advance as part of my package deal. Rising into the air above the Hudson River you’ll fly past the Statue of Liberty, along the world’s most famous skyline and over the Brooklyn Bridge. The tour doesn’t come cheap and lasts for only minutes but it’s worth every penny.

Seeing the same sights from the water allows for better photo opportunities. But be sure to pay attention to the guide, whose fascinating anecdotes demonstrate the strength of feeling for the city among its natives. They will also strengthen yours.

After exploring downtown areas on foot, I felt tired but invigorated, and it was time to hail a cab to take me to a pre-booked gig. I recalled the advice of a Virgin Holidays rep – don’t ask for your destination, instead, name the two streets that form the junction closest to where you want to go. And don’t forget to tip the driver on arrival. Tips should also be given where other services are offered, including restaurants and bars, but not in shops.

Walking into the Mercury Lounge venue was a daunting experience. However, once at the bar, I was welcomed to the city’s nightlife by the friendly bartender.

Don’t be afraid to approach New Yorkers when in Manhattan for the first time. Despite their reputation for coldness and impatience, those I spoke to were chatty and helpful.

With the city still alive at 2am, I felt safe making my way back to the hotel on foot. However, it’s advisable not to whip out your camera and map when walking alone, although the city’s grid-like road system means you’ll have to make an effort to get lost.

The next morning, I ventured north to the Rockefeller Center, where, for $21, you’ll literally feel on top of the world as you take in a 360-degree view.

Central Park can take up a huge chunk of your time as you relax with nature, take a horse-and-cart ride or join the skaters on the outdoor rink.

After crossing the road to the Dakota Building where Beatles legend John Lennon was shot dead in 1980, I was surprised to find the city’s Metro system safe and easy to use as I made my way to Ground Zero.

Arriving close to Wall Street, I stood on some steps and looked down at a construction site. Now a hive of activity filled with cranes, the oddly small area where the Twin Towers once stood still has the power to move you to tears.

Returning home the following morning, I knew the personal rewards of leaping out of my comfort zone would be long-lasting. Walking the streets of Manhattan is like plugging yourself into the city’s main power source; with a body full of energy and a head full of bright lights, you’ll be out of that rut in no time.

* Nicole travelled to New York with Virgin Holidays, which offers ideal packages for novice travellers, including hotels, flights, transfers, excursions and in-resort reps.

* Prices start at £566 (based on departures from September 24-28) for three nights at the Ace Hotel, including flights from Heathrow, taxes and fuel surcharges.

* To book or for more details, visit www.virginholidays.co.uk or call 0844 557 3859.